10/03/2026
There is a quiet scramble happening across the sector.
Are you trying to include lived experience in your work?
You might be:
• setting up advisory groups
• running consultations
• designing co-design processes
• trying to bring lived experience voices into projects
And you genuinely want to do this well.
But many people working in this space are also navigating a difficult reality.
• tight funding timelines and amounts
• organisational pressures
• expectations to demonstrate lived experience involvement to funders and stakeholders (but not necessarily meaningfully include it — let’s be honest)
• and the optics of needing to be seen to include lived experience - because the principle was created before the practice
So the work moves quickly.
Processes are created.
Participants are invited (not always with care).
Insights and experiences are shared.
But difficult questions often sit just beneath the surface.
Are participants losing motivation because they cannot see how their contributions influence decisions?
Are participants’ wellbeing, mental health and rights being cared for in the process?
Is lived experience knowledge being gathered carefully, transparently and fairly — or translated through multiple layers before decision-makers ever see it?
Are advisory groups connected to real governance pathways, or sitting beside the decisions rather than shaping them?
Are systems drawing on people’s experiences of hardship, trauma or injustice as a source of insight, while the people sharing that expertise are not always fairly compensated, credited or supported?
And once lived experience insight has been gathered…
Who actually has the authority to act on it?
Because there is an uncomfortable truth emerging in this work.
Including lived experience in a process does not automatically mean it influences the outcome.
Being present in the room is not the same as shaping what happens inside it.
Recognition alone does not determine influence.
Participation alone does not shift power.
And poorly structured lived experience engagement can damage trust in the very systems it is intended to improve.
As lived experience work continues to expand and mature across sectors, questions about power, influence and governance are becoming harder to ignore.
Part 3 of Lived Impact’s series — The Use and Misuse of Lived Experience - will be released this week. https://www.linkedin.com/company/lived-impact/
In the next part of this series I’ll introduce the Lived Impact model:
The Lived Experience Influence Ladder — where lived experience moves from participation to authority.
Developed through
Lived Impact— Lived Experience Consultancy, Advocacy, Influence & Systems Change
⬇️ Check the first comment to see how this model can help organisations navigate the tensions in lived experience work — from tokenism and optics to genuine influence and authority.