13/05/2024
I feel that true love is like walking a tight rope. Too far to either side and things start to look a little bleak.
Now, if you imagine your son walking along a tight rope to stop him from falling to one side is "unconditional love", and to stop him from falling towards the other side is a healthy upbringing of "difficulty and empowerment".
***There is so much to talk about here I'll only be touching on unconditional love, and then I will attempt a live/video and talk about it all more fully***
Loving your sons unconditionally:
So real briefly unconditional love is when you love without condition or expectation of return - it's loving selflessly.
If you can love your son unconditionally you will provide him with unimaginable comfort, confidence, and strength within himself... and the stability/health this provides is one of the greatest blessings a boy can experience.
From my experience (in the mental health sector, police force, and just life in general) I can always see bread crumbs following a broken male back to an upbringing of a lack of unconditional love (amongst other things).
I'm sure you already do, but if you can love your son with that selfless unconditional love (loving without conditions or thought of personal gain) your son will be so powerful I can't even tell you how beautiful it will be.
Your son will walk the tight rope of life and he will just know that he will be ok... because although he will make mistakes... he will still be loved - and that is huge!
I know this topic is super deep (I started to realise this as my thoughts began to flow), and if there is eventual interest I'll look at diving in a little deeper.