11/08/2026
“How can you be a matchmaker when you’re single?”
I get asked this more often than you might think.
I also get, “I can’t believe you’re single.”
So I thought I’d answer it.
Yes, I’m single. And no, it’s not because I couldn’t find someone for myself.
I’ve had prospective clients decide they’d rather ask me on a date than become a client. I’ve had men I’ve approached through my work think for a moment that I’m asking if they’re single for myself.
But then I say, “I’m a matchmaker.”
And sometimes I can actually see the disappointment.
The truth is, when I meet an interesting single man, my brain immediately goes to my clients.
Who would I put him with?
Who would he connect with?
Whose values and lifestyle would align with his?
That’s genuinely how my mind works.
Matchmaker & Co. isn’t a way for me to meet men. It’s my business, my passion and something I have poured an enormous amount of myself into.
I work seven days a week because I choose to. I’m also a mum, and my children, my business and travelling with my family have been my priorities.
Could I make finding a relationship more of a priority? Absolutely.
Would I love a romantic weekend away with someone special? Of course I would.
But I also believe there are seasons in life.
Right now, I spend an enormous amount of my time helping other people find what they’re ready for.
And that’s actually what I admire so much about my clients.
They’ve reached a point where they are ready.
They’re open.
They’re brave enough to say, “I want someone in my life,” and then trust me to help them find that person.
When I’m ready to give my own personal life that same energy, perhaps my chapter will come too.
Or maybe I’ll meet someone completely organically when my Matchmaker brain is switched off for five minutes.
Stranger things have happened.
Until then, when I ask a man, “Are you single?”
Chances are, I already have someone in mind for him.
Amy B
Matchmaker & Co