28/08/2026
My body has enough bloody admin already.
Hypermobility. Autoimmune stuff. Pain. Sensory overload. A nervous system that occasionally decides WE’RE FULL before I’ve even finished the day.
So no, I don’t need my self-care becoming another job.
10 steps? No thanks.
A complicated ritual? Also no.
Another thing I’m supposed to be good at? Absolutely not.
Give me care that feels good, does its job and asks less of me. Because when your body is already carrying a lot, care shouldn’t add to the load.
That’s a big part of the thinking behind Nichi James. Less performative self-care.
More “I’ve had enough for today” care.
Care without the crap.