30/01/2024
Why ‘The School of Gentle Touch’ ?
Because I believe it’s needed !
We are currently living in what’s known as ‘the hook up culture’ where a ‘booty call’ is just a phone call away …. However evidence shows that even though the feminine thinks she is coming from a place of Power because she calls the shot’s and can easily get laid, the repercussions of these actions can be detrimental to her physical (especially the womb space) and mental well being.
Why?
Because, unless you are in a loving relationship with a committed partner, you are just using each others bodies for a sexual high and most of the time the masculine you have chosen is coming from the wounded masculine so does not know how to love you, touch you, hold you, worship you, adore you let alone commit to you.
Lots of women have trouble reaching or**sm with a partner ( yet we can achieve or**sm on our own) yet when it comes to making love, f #*king, being penetrated we don’t reach the big ‘O’….
Why?
I believe 9 times out of 10 us women are craving Touch - not S€X !
I feel our generation has been brainwashed through media, books, stories, p**n, advertisements, etc. that satisfaction is reached through S€X!
I feel it is time to de brainwash the masses and start a new way. A slow way, a gentle way, a vulnerable way, a loving way.
A way that leaves everyone feeling loved up, relaxed, calm, heard, held, safe, seen, respected, fulfilled and honoured….. instead of sore, shamed, used, afraid, traumatised, empty and unseen!
So the goal is not in*******se or the big ‘O’?
Nope far from it 😉. The goal is re establishing trust and connection to other humans, but more importantly TO OURSELVES 🥰!
The goal is RELAXATION 😮💨…..
I’m all about keeping my nervous system as relaxed as possible these days, it’s the phase I’m in, so we may as well use this phase to its max whilst it’s here 😂👍💕!
So where is the School of Gentle Touch?
Currently it will take place in my home in Dawesville. My home is a little beach shack so the groups will be small to start with ( I’m looking to transform my garage into a larger workshop space in the future 🙏🏽) I would like to create a space where we can come together and re learn boundaries, connection, non sexual intimacy, cuddles , touch, massge techniques on self and on others, openness, joy, playfulness ( sometimes we are just going to want to sing or get up and dance) , bliss and relaxation!
So what do the workshops look like?
To start this venture off I feel drawn to women’s circles first. This way we can come together and establish trust and acceptance amongst women first ✊🤝💕
Integrating Self-Love, Self-Worth, Self- Respect techniques through gentle breath work and stretching with pauses of Meditation in between to process feelings , allow emotions to bubble up and bubble over, to drop in deeply to Self. We can incorporate loving affirmations to connect us back to our bodies and learn self massage techniques ( especially the womb area) before we start learning how to massage others.
Imagine a ten people work shop. Two massage tables. It’s your turn to get on the table. 4 sisters are around you giving you an 8 handed massage. Yep 😉👍💕. Told ya BLISS 😂
Will you hold space for the masculine or couples?
Yes, in the future it is pivotal to open the workshop space up to men. The masculine is craving touch as much as the feminine but they are a bit more stubborn when it comes to stepping into their vulnerability and discarding old belief systems and behavioural patterns. However it’s crucial to teach the masculine how the feminine yearns to be held safely by him, yearns for his touch, his caress, his energy without having to be penetrated, owned or controlled.
We will know when the time is right, because it will just unfold and I pray the ripple effects of the respect held between the masculine and feminine ,slowly change our neighbourhoods, our communities, our cities, our states, our countries - our WORLD 🌍 🤝❤️🥰✊
How long is a session ?
I would say 2 hours maybe 3 😉
How much is a workshop?
These classes are donation based 🙏🏽
Why donation ?
Everything is energy. Money is energy 💸. Lentils and brown rice are energy 🍚. Fertiliser is energy 🌱. Mulch is energy 🌾.
A piece of fish or a home made meal will give me energy 😂💪🏽……
Everything balances itself out in the end ⚖️
Say for instance your inner child is currently in a state of fear. In this mode we cling to everything because we are feeling unsafe. Unsafe in our bodies. Unsafe around people, unsafe about the future, so we feel we can not spend money right now because we need it to keep us safe in the future ( I’ve been here )
So we feel we can give little that day ….
And on another day when we are in our power we feel money is in flow, it comes and goes and we have no need to cling to it, so that day we give a little more ….
In this way it all balances itself out ⚖️🌾💕
We all get what we need at the time ⏳👍
It’s a Win Win 🥇 🤝🤜🤛🏽💕🥰🫂
When will the classes be held?
Let’s call them Touch Tuesdays 😂
And let’s start them Tuesday 13th Feb and lock in the next 6 weeks (13/2, 20/2, 27/2, 5/3, 12/3, & 19/3)
And let’s aim for a 6.30 start and a 9 pm finish.
Like I said earlier my small home will be at capacity at 10 people, so it’s going to be on first in first served basis, however if the need for gentle touch is very high I will open another day to hold more people 💕
How can we get hold of you Eva 🙏🏽
You can message me on here - my Howling Buddha page , or on my fb page Eva Salander
Or call/ message me 0410942509.
Ok I think all bases are covered 👍 and now we just shoot it out to the Universe ✨and see what boomerangs back 🪃!
Thanks for reading this essay 📖
Took me all morning 😂
Eva 🐲
