10/04/2015
HAPPINESS…….
How many of you actually talk about this thing called happiness?
REALLY!!! How many….
Everyone wants to be HAPPY.
And it is the number 1 goal people set out achieve…yet we don’t really talk about it.
Which makes it one of the hottest topics in the world.
So why is it that this thing is happiness eludes most of the population on the planet, and they have no idea why!
This is because they are either taking an interest in happiness or they are chasing it.
If you are chasing happiness, you have missed what happiness really is, and there are far to many people chasing happiness instead of taking an interest in it, and this only leads to a never, ending road that continuously takes you around in circles.
I believe that most people are unhappy because they really don’t understand what happiness is!
So lets get some clarity on it.
There are three type of happiness:
1. Pleasure – which is the enjoyment of the senses.
2. Satisfaction – which is, I am happy because…
3. Joy – this is what you call unreasonable happiness. Why, because it doesn’t need a reason, and it doesn’t need, a because, it just is.
By getting an understanding and clarity on what it happiness means to you, you can start living happiness now.
You see there is a fundamental difference between pursuing happiness and following your joy.
When you are in search of happiness, you are placing it outside of yourself, and it becomes a chase you enter into, of a paradigm of becoming, and you end up saying things like, I am going to become happy when….not yet or soon.
Where as following your joy it is entirely different, you are tuning into something that is already here, and feels amazing. And when you are tuned in to joy, your thoughts, your words and your action are elevated to reflect this joyous state.
So until you make the decision to tune in to joy and become aware of what you are thinking and saying, happiness will continue to elude you.
Start asking yourself the question now!
Get clear on what happiness is for you, while becoming conscious of what you are thinking and saying to yourself and others, this is your best place to start
Once you realize that happiness in not outside of you, and it is not inside of you, you will come to understand that happiness is your true nature.
The whole reason that you want to be happy is because you want to be yourself, and when you are happy you are being yourself, and when you can fully express who you really are, you feel free. This is when you being your authentic self.
So what is the purpose of happiness!
The purpose is to help you to be the authentic…..
This thing called happiness shows you if you are being your true self or not. Consider it the light on your own personal dashboard that tells you if you are on track and doing great.
By understanding that true happiness is not in the absence of unhappiness, true happiness is having the capacity to handle your unhappiness honestly, and with love and acceptance, while finding a way to bring them both together.
You will also come to realize that happiness doesn’t come and go, we do. We are the ones who get manic, and busy in day-to-day life, and that is then we run around looking for it.
Decide, come back to yourself, this is when you will find happiness.
Remember…..you can’t chase happiness,
You choose HAPPINESS.
Choose happiness and change your;
Attitude:
Make your mind up that you want to be happy, then only think, say and do things that are uplifting and empowering.
Relationships:
Focus your essential energy on the people you
love. Make them your priority, to receive your love, attention time and energy.
Work:
Have a passion for what you do, and it won’t be a job. Live your life with purpose, and will never work.
Realize that your definition of happiness ultimately influences the rest of your life. So get clear on what happiness means to you, and uplift the way you think and speak.
This is when you will live from that place in your heart, as your heart knows what happiness really is, and it is in that knowing that you can put your life back on track.
Knowing this, tells you that wisdom is not something new. Wisdom is remembered.
Choose happiness now!
Take the time to know what happiness is, from the authentic you. Elevate how you think and speak, while living from the love and wisdom of your heart.
And remember to always be you, the true authentic you and happiness will never elude you again.