16/09/2026
Perfectionistic managers are driven by fear. The fear of 'getting it wrong' which typically stems right back to childhood. And that fear permeates their teams.
Perfectionism โ high standards
Perfectionism wears many disguises in the office: "meticulousness", "professionalism", "being responsible", "self-discipline". On their own, these aren't necessarily bad traits to have, but if they're masks for one's own insecurities, you can be sure they'll erode the very performance they seek to promote.
Instead of enabling excellence, maladaptive perfectionism constrains creative problem solving, slows decision-making, and reduces team autonomy.
The hidden cost of perfectionism
What looks like โsetting the bar highโ can create an environment of risk-aversion and rigidity:
๐ธ In fear of inevitable criticism, team members second-guess their work instead of acting decisively
๐ธ Innovation stalls under excessive scrutiny
๐ธ Managers burn themselves out from shouldering every detail unnecessarily, working at too low a level
๐ธ Trust erodes as people feel judged unfairly
Shifting from critical to constructive standards
People with constructive achievement behaviours value quality, but these people balance directing attention to standards and quality with trust, delegation, and the recognition that mistakes are essential to learning.
If you have been told that you can be pedantic, particular, or perfectionistic, try some of these:
๐ธ Define the โnon-negotiablesโ in terms of client outcomes, and let go of the rest. Notice what 'letting go' feels like for you?
๐ธ Focus feedback on outcomes and growth, not minor flaws. What did they learn? Get them to tell you about how they figured it out.
๐ธ Model tolerance. Demonstrate to others your belief that error is a necessary part of innovation and experimentation
๐ธAsk: โWill this correction build capability, or just prove I was right?โ