30/05/2026
Hi, I’m 32M and genuinely looking for advice.
Goto dui bochor dhore basha theke patri dekha hocchilo and finally ek mash age ekta suitable patri paowa geche. Alhamdulillah she’s beautiful, humble, educated — literally everyone in my family is obsessed with her already.
Kintu amar ekta problem ase.
Ami oral hygiene niye unnecessarily serious. Like… khawar por sathe sathe mouthwash kori type.
Eid e shey amar bashay family shoho dawat khete ashchilo and i sat next to her at the table. When I noticed that tar daat we faak e faak e mangsho lege ase dekhe mone hoitesilo daat eo chul gojaise.
Ekhon eita to amader first Qurbani Eid together. Dawat e ashche, family ase, mangsho ase, selfie uthbe 400 ta. Shob bujhlam kintu mangsho to bati te dekhte chaisilam. Or daat e na. Ami obak hoilam o keno toothpick use korlo na…
Ami obviously “tomar daat er konay konay mangsher dokan er moto mangsho display hoitese” directly bolte pari nai because arranged marriage, ami ekhono fully free hoite pari nai 😭
So amar masterplan hishabe ami or haat e gift er moto kore amar room e thaka ekta Pepsodent salt toothpaste dhoray disi ar bolsi eita tomar gift! Akhoni use koro!
Shamne amar choto bon chilo. O h***e dise.. tarpor o amar theke toothpaste na niye bolse eita kemon gift? Bole o oita kichu na bole jore amar room er desk e rekhe onno room e chole gese. Amar shathe ar kotha bole nai.
But now I’m worried she did not understand my point and shey mind korse. Amar call dhore nai kalke raat theke.. now how do I fix it?
Can you guys help me think of a smart move to explain my ick to her? I really like her but eita nite partesi na.. and I need help. Ami chai na biye ta bhenge jaak amon ekta bishoy e. Help!!
