08/27/2026
Working triceps today at the gym.
I’ve made many, many course corrections, and decisions in my life. Not all of them good ones.
I’ve been exercising in one form or another for pretty much my entire adult life. Running, cycling, yoga, weight, training, etc.
I’d stick with it for a while but then something would come up that caused me to stop my routine and then life would get in the way.
I’m sure you know the story… Lol. Well, about 12 years ago I decided it was time to start back at the gym. This time I didn’t just start in hopes that I would continue, I made a commitment to stick with it, no matter what. And so I’ve been at it consistently for 12 years.
About five months ago, I developed an aggravated sciatica, and that caused me to rethink my decisions.
Have I done something wrong?
Did I actually harm my body rather than taking care of it? I always try to eat healthy and maintain good mental and emotional health as well. Did I screw things up somewhere along the way? Why is my body letting me down?
Well, the truth is, my body didn’t let me down. It did exactly what it was supposed to do. During those few months of physical challenges and constant pain, I talked to many people who experienced sciatica and for most of them, it lasted way more than three months and for some several years. I’ve been pain-free and medication free for over a month now. To say I’m grateful is an understatement. I was in constant pain, on pain meds, spending half the day lying on my back and wondering… What if this never goes away?
Well, I knew better than to think negative thoughts like that.
I started to change how I thought about where I was. It started thinking more positive, healing, healthy thoughts.
I decided to trust my body and the amazing healing powers that our minds and bodies have to overcome almost anything.
Not that it was easy by any means. Some days the pain was so intense I was moved to tears. But still I knew better. I had to trust and believe that I could get through this. And I did.
Did I do this alone?
Hell, no! I had the supportive family, friends, business colleagues, music, colleagues, pretty much everyone in my circle was sympathetic and supportive.
But through it all, no matter how difficult it was, it was my wife who stepped up as my caregiver, my Florence Nightingale.
Even while dealing with pain issues of her own, she was up and down the stairs, bringing me ice packs, food, medication, whatever I needed, she was there for me 100%.
So I stand here today in complete gratitude for the choices I’ve made, for my body’s determination to keep me healthy and fit, for the support of my friends and family and for my wife’s unconditional love.
I know this is cliché, but you know the saying “what doesn’t kill you, only makes you stronger“. I can honestly say that I am a stronger and better person because of my experience.
Hats off to the millions of people who are dealing with health issues far worse than my sciatica. I have nothing but love, respect and gratitude for you.
You all know who you are. And I thank you for your inspiration.
Peace and love y’all.