08/02/2026
You may not be aware of this, but many of you have been trying to lead in a masculine way, energetically speaking.
Masculine leadership looks like this: divide & conquer, set aside your emotions, constantly try to better yourself rather than accepting yourself as you are, keep going even when you need rest, ignore your body and be productive at all cost.
You think this is leadership, but it isn’t.
This is replication of a patriarchal world concept, and even though you hate the patriarchy, you’re accidentally perpetuating.
The matriarchy was built on cycles. There are cycles of productivity & rest. Nature doesn’t bloom all year. Business doesn’t grow all year. Every year of our lives isn’t dedicated to productivity.
Feminine leadership is a product of the matriarchy. Here we honour the cycles of nature and the cycles of our body. We honour the cycles created by our hormones. We honour menstruation. We honour the flashes of heat in menopause.
Feminine leadership means to honour your femininity whatever that looks like for you. Be proud of it.
Don’t make your emotions wrong. Don’t make yourself wrong. Stop thinking if you were a man you’d have it better. No. You’re rebuilding a new earth. Feminine leadership is a big part of this.
So what does this mean in practical terms?
It means when you need rest, you rest. It means you do not sacrifice your wellbeing in the name of growing your business or making more money. You get smart and outsource things. You put systems in place. You create a team of people you hire to support you.
You grow your business on the principles of connection, community, generosity & empathy, not on extraction, capitalization, manipulation, or hoarding of wealth.
Your wealth is not yours anyway, you can’t take it with you. Use it to restructure broken systems, use it for repair & restoration of people, land, animals. You will be given more money than you could ever imagine, your needs will be met and beyond if you decide to use money as a vehicle for repair.
Feminine leadership is the understanding that we’re not separate from others or from the land, we are one. We’re connected. What impacts one person impacts another. Your work isn’t separate from that.
You’ve been taught to build by extraction, amass wealth & then use an exit strategy - but that’s not it, not for you anyway. You’re not Jef Bezos.
You build with people. Your life is infinitely tied to the people you’re here to serve. They don’t go away. The need doesn’t go away. There won’t be a time when you can make an exit & sip pina coladas on the beach - you won’t want to. Even when you’re on the beach you will think about your people. You were sent on earth to assist these people.
We don’t rest after we’ve made all the money we want. We rest with & during & after and we build with & during & after. There is no place you have to arrive. You are here. You have arrived. Let’s get to work.