11/20/2025
When the applause came, I suddenly got nervous. The slide clicker slipped right out of my hand, it cracked open as it hit the floor, and the battery went flying across the room. For real!
It was the end of my workshop, and I knew (without a doubt) that the applause was genuine. So why did I get nervous?
At least half the participants went out of their way to thank me for a well-executed session (I don’t mean to brag, but that’s a sure sign they truly enjoyed it). I had kept all 30 participants engaged from the very first minute—they laughed, they worked hard on each challenge, they reflected deeply, and every single person walked away with at least one new insight about themselves and more trust in their team. They left with a clear roadmap for tackling challenges and a deeper understanding of the value of balancing creative and critical thinking for optimal results.
This workshop was part of a two-day offsite for a small but highly successful team with staff in the USA, Canada, and England. They had chosen to meet in beautiful Prince Edward County. The photos below give you a snapshot of the day.
So why did I get nervous at the very end? Well… they don’t know this, but I ran out of time and wasn’t able to close the way I had planned. I worried that the closing I ended up doing was too blah—so when the applause came, it didn’t feel 100% deserved.
I always end my sessions on time, even if it means adjusting the design. As a facilitator, I often have to make those kinds of decisions on the fly. In this case, I decided to give them extra time for the previous reflection exercise because the room was buzzing with excitement from people’s insights. I didn’t want to cut that short. But it meant I had to close “from the stage” rather than inviting participants to share their own closing reflections. This is not my preference. I like to have the final spotlight on the team, not on me.
Luckily, no one seemed to notice that my clicker battery went flying across the room. I kept my cool and silently told myself that all was good.
By the way, if you are planning a team offsite or a leadership retreat, and you want to tackle a real challenge, or you want it to have a real impact on how the team thinks and feels long after the offsite, PM me, I’d love to chat.