Sveta's Creations

Sveta's Creations Counselling services: Women's issues, Relationship/ Family counselling, Personal Image. Arts- educator: Trauma informed Approach, Culturally competent, Women.

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    "Pandemic saw huge rise in younger adolescents, particularly girls, visiting hospital for mental health crises. The ...
09/21/2023

"Pandemic saw huge rise in younger adolescents, particularly girls, visiting hospital for mental health crises. The pair of new studies published Monday in the Canadian Medical Association Journal found higher than expected emergency department visits & hospitalizations for these mental health crises in children ages 10 -18 compared to the yrs leading up to the pandemic."

दिखावे- बड़ा🚗🏠 के चक्कर में घर में कलेश- collateral damage=बच्चे बरबाद 💔 HEARING grave from children, adolescent girls 'Young South Women living in Western countries have the highest rate of su***des, attempted su***de, & other acts of self harm compared with South Asian men & white women.' 'Women from the South Asian diaspora are at a high risk of su***de - but less likely to have the common warning signs - & so prevention is more difficult.' 'noone knows I smoke w**d & done MORE..waiting to turn 18 yrs I'll leave 🏠don't want anything to do with parents, always 'barking' at each other, cannot share anything with Mom- she's Dad's servant, caters to my brother only, no freedom' *******hy
'my father hit me because I failed, 'hate my teacher' makes fun of my accent BUT cannot say anything. told father I'll call 911 if he hits again I'll leave, be homeless but its better than being at home)💔 ({multiple Girl children share stories of DV IPV)
Increased conflicts, religious/Cultural disagreements, Acculturation pressure, internal patriarchal oppressions 🏡 & external Anglo Saxon dominant culture! There is no specific data available on how many South Asian young women have committed su***de in 🇨🇦
'KNOW THYSELF '=B ROLE models=🛑gender based stereotypes, internalized misogyny, SEXISM, SHADISM, discrimination spewing HATRED at 🏠 FOUNDATIONS OF MORALITY 'Identification'
start in the EARLY yrs. of a child's life. DO U KNOW what your is going through? अहँकार त्यागो BEFORE IT'S 2 LATE 🙏🏼👁️

Happy   ' Did you buy   for your brother? She asked.. "No he tied Rakhi on my wrist & asked me to tie ताबीज़ on his arm"...
08/30/2023

Happy ' Did you buy for your brother? She asked.. "No he tied Rakhi on my wrist & asked me to tie ताबीज़ on his arm". WHY? "BECAUSE he BELIEVES my prayers,& friendship protect him MORE." 'That's strange isn't it?' NO ITS NOT👉 'According to Buddhism, there is not the slightest difference in the way both men & women have what we call Buddha nature, or the potential for enlightenment. They are therefore essentially EQUAL". 'Oh your brother is 👉NO he's a Where there is organic THERE IS What is giving to sister in 2023? She doesn't need oppressive, religious coercive control, pontification & protection FROM Men: She demands your caring MEN often state 'I have a sister' WHEN confronted with acts of barbaric VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN & GIRL CHILD? उसका क्या मतलब है?
-WHAT is the essence, authentic meaning of that? Do you unconsciously or consciously bear thoughts of contempt for women WHEN your self-entitlement, hubris (due to cosmic designed physiology) is challenged at home, work, society ?🧐

क्या बहन आज़ाद है? क्या बहन सपने बिना डर् के साकार कर सकती है? क्या बहन के पास वह सारे हक् हैं जो एक भाई के जन्म सिद्ध अधिकार है? क्या वो बहन जो 2s community में है क्या उसे घर, work, समाज में इज्ज़त से पूर्ण अधिकार हैं? क्या बहन खुश है?🤔 गिरेबान में स्वयं को समझने, देखने का समय है AND that is a priceless 🎁 for 👉 'But if you pay close attention, you will see that the most masculine man has a feminine soul, and the most feminine woman has a masculine soul.(Carl Jung, Liber Novus, Page 263.) Brother & Sister are not separate entities; they are juxtaposed as feminine & masculine in every human Body. Acknowledge it. Embrace IT. 👁️

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मेरे भाई सदैव ज्ञान के मार्ग पर स्थिर रहें 🤲 🙏🏼🌞❤️

She said,'my family has abandoned me feel like commiting su***de..'👉WHY kill yourSELF for someone else's heinous crimes ...
08/23/2023

She said,'my family has abandoned me feel like commiting su***de..'👉WHY kill yourSELF for someone else's heinous crimes against you? This body is just on loan with an expiry date, it's your canvass to do great things. BUT your Soul is powerful beyond words👁️ मेरे कहानी शायद तुम्हें थोड़ा साहस दे सके. मेरा भी कोई नहीं है, BUT I know God, KANHA loves me & my bestest FRIEND R,squirrels, rabbits, birds, SNOWY GLOWY(MY spiritual sons 😽😽)they all love me dearly. सुनो तो👂🙏🏼
It took an 'unfathomable'(sam-gi-mi-gyap) in language -' something that the mind cannot capture ', which is beyond the reach of human intellect; a
TRAGEDY to open my eyes of consciousness in 🇨🇦. IT was sexual assault by the Dr.(MANDATORY REPORTING); followed by 'irreparable damages'-over a decade uphill battle with historically corrupt CPSO -medical, judiciary & policing 👉 ASK IF REPORTING their PERPETRATOR will get 👁️ 😱 YOU will have to straddle against savage forces of INSTITUTIONAL gender inequality structures -cultural religious -violence & OPPRESSIONS तुम्हें decide करना है कि सत्य की खोज में कब तक खड़़ी रहोगी? मौत भी हो सकती है तुम्हारी-घातक हैं अपराधी, अंग्रेज़ 💔 तुम्हारा support system, कौन है?तुम्हारा विशवास कौन करता है? जो दोस्त हैं वो दुश्मन बन जाएंगे? ऐसा कौन है जो तुम्हारा साथ कभी नहीं छोड़ेगा? जब घरवाले भी साथ नहीं देगें तो कहाँ जाऊगी?अपने ही पराए हो जाएंगे, तुम्हें पागल, रंडी, बदमाश, slut, bad character कहेंगे!🗡️Your righteous indignation, courage, resilience, discernment, WISDOM & INTUITION MUST become your ARMOUR 🔥
PREPARE yourself with horrific realities of
🗝️NEVER अपने को स्वयं दुख नहीं देना 'We protect us. We do. Nobody else. Not the companies, not the scientists, not the government. Us.' [ Rob Bilott( Dark Waters)] TUM Bus APNI Bunn Jaou NEVER seek validation from others 🧠🫀🫁 कर्म किए जा 🇮🇳🙏🏼🦚👁️❤️

  [I always put others ahead of me..they continually hurt me: family, husband( DV history)&even adult son physically abu...
08/09/2023

[I always put others ahead of me..they continually hurt me: family, husband( DV history)&even adult son physically abusive- मैंने हमेशा सबकी सेवा करी,full time RN thee अब में कोई नहीं पूछता, 66yrs may 1st time I asked my sister 2 help me( I sponsored her 20 yrs ago) -she refused, Husband didn't care, without telling me bought cottage, moved leaving me alone. .Joint account empty kurr diya I had no idea..Shayad maut hee Meri Azadi Hai..]😰💔
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=necessary tool to begin awareness of IS do NOT misunderstand it for carnal love or affection attachment. Both induce fear & grief. 👉 प्यार? प्रेम??🤔हमें सिखाया जाता है सेवा परिवार की, सबकी -ही धर्म है । हमें नहीं सिखाया जाता कि अपनी सेवा भी परम धर्म है क्योंकि पित्रसंस्था को भय है कि अगर स्रियाँ हो गईं तो उनकी राजगद्दी का अन्त हो जाएगा । LOVING KINDNESS ought to be directed towards yourself FIRST, then equally to others. Empty well cannot quench anyone's thirst 👁️
Teach as EARLY as possible worth NOT a destination Even with professional education why are women still putting up with DV, IPV & staying in grave abuse? "I earn BUT give it to him. He gives me money When I ask him.."🤦
स्वयं कैद में रहकर अपने बेटी या बच्चों को आज़ाद नहीं कर सकते
'Be ye isles unto yourselves; be ye a refuge unto yourselves; seek no reguge in others.' ( Digha Nikaya,11,3, Mahaparinibbana Sutta, p.100)
Tum Bus APNI Bunn Jaou 🔥

'If you stick a knife in my back 9 inches & and pull it out 6 inches, that's not progress. If you pull it all the way ou...
07/25/2023

'If you stick a knife in my back 9 inches & and pull it out 6 inches, that's not progress. If you pull it all the way out, that's not progress. Progress is healing the wound that the blow made. They haven't pulled the 🔪 out; they won't even admit that it's there.' ( Malcolm X) EPIDEMIC Constant Q: क्या के लिए safe Hai? jobs
Deep examination IMPERATIVE 👁️ YOU ALONE MUST decide 🙏🏼
WHAT ARE THE LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES shared by ????
TRUTH सच् कड़वा है- won't sugarcoat it🧐 WHAT are your personal values, & ethics?
In EVERY job there was a predator Consequences of reporting are unbelievable LOSSES for the victim. The ONLY way to be WAS to exit with no further loss of Dignity is a watershed movement for racialized women and Trans women. And many White 'Karens' are complicit, aligned with patriarchy in rapeculture. बहुत CAUTIOUS, सर्तक रहना तुम्हारा हमदर्द TRUE कौन है? WHO will offer UNCONDITIONAL SUPPORTS When faced with unforseen tragedy? 😱
WHAT are you willing to COMPROMISE to make IT?
INSTITUTIONAL
RESEARCH INDIGENOUS PEOPLES & their struggle for self determination 154 yrs later 🙏🏼
A man's Refusal to work WITH women is the Red light of his internal schema: Misogyny, sexiest, superiority complex SO blaming women, victim blaming is default. Your SAFETY is in your hands.UNLESS Women authentically, consciously raise each other withOUT covetousness, with empathy, intersectional feminist lens Men will continue to railroad, piggy back, exploit, subjugate, commodify Women 👉 'Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced' (James Baldwin)

ESSENTIAL 🙏🏼🧘 Tum Bus APNI Bunn Jaou 🔱 🗡️ of 🧠🫀❤️
सत्य परेशान हो सकता है, परन्तु पराजित नही ॥ 'सत्मेव जयते' 🙏🏼🕉️☪️✝️☯️🕎

Can WOMEN be SAFE? 'My daughter is asking for breast implants for 16th bday'/ 'My daughter says if I don't pay for her n...
07/11/2023

Can WOMEN be SAFE?
'My daughter is asking for breast implants for 16th bday'/ 'My daughter says if I don't pay for her nose job she has 'ways' to earn 💰she's 19 I cannot do 'CONTROL' her' /'cannot leave husband, spent past 18 yrs raising 3 kids, at 48 no one will hire me, All accounts in his name.. putting up with his violence, v. scared he'll leave me for the OTHER woman'/ 'Marriage में सहना पड़ता ...Canada में किसको बताऊँ अपनी कहानी YEH p**n ka ADDICT Hai- INDIAN AURTEY tou Sabse jyada gossip kartey hai, shelter may kabhi NAHI jaoungi ' 😰 STAYING IN fanning Inability to leave toxic
WORTH NOT defined by your marital, relationship TEACH INTRINSIC VALUE, SELF WORTH, SELF RESPECT by setting a foundation of empowerment= Hai= REFUSE 2 stay in abuse, violence, disrespect by ANY 👉 TEACH young girls sexiness is a State of empowered NOT about the size, color of Body! Your Body NOT a commodity FOR display, for snaring a sexual, or romantic partner, in servitude for Male pleasure. It's an instrument for bringing Divine joy, Sacred beauty, pleasure for higher consciousness of spiritual Self. WITH 'BUDDHI', autonomy, agency, 'Atmic paridhan' connect in an AUTHENTIC, organic, equitable manner with a reciprocal partner
DO NOT be decieved by external facade, shimmer, White beauty standards. 'Narration is as much a part of human nature as breath and the circulation of the blood.' 👂 to your CONSCIENCE: BE Master of your life:Body, Mind,❤️& SOUL. Honor SELF 🔱LET nothing shake you 🔥"It is hard to fight desire; but to control it is the sign of a
reasonable man.” BE IN CONTROL of your 'INDRIYA' ( senses) 👁️ Tum Bus APNI Bunn Jaou 🧘
Your safety lies in your wisdom. Noone can save you , Self knowledge can. IS real APNA DHYAN SWAYAM rakhou 🙏🏼❤️




🗝️POWER SUPPLY to

                   look like?  "C section key baad no desire..said NO- he inserted the broken wooden plank..Bleeding sto...
06/07/2023

look like?
"C section key baad no desire..said NO- he inserted the broken wooden plank..Bleeding stop NAHI होती/ THAPPAD maarta / THREATEN karta bacchey ley kur bhaag Jayega/ I make MORE money than him/ don't know what to do? he's threatened by my success/ When people address me as Dr. he asks them to call him a Dr.( he's an engineer, not Dr.)/NOT allowed to see friends. FAMILY IN has NO idea/cannot leave him have 2 younger eligible sisters💔: EDUCATED & uneducated women cont. to perform according to LOG KYA KAHENGEY!! कैसे बदलेगा कुछ? IN SOUTH ASIAN culture, the collective idea of family is most important that an individual's needs or desires. In order to maintain the hierarchy of power in the community or clan, all members must abide by the rules of the male patriarch: father, brother, husband & son. MANY South Asian girls & immigrant women struggle to understand their place in Canadian society. 'On one hand, they have to face racial discrimination, prejudice & other challenges to fit in with their Canadian peers, & on the other hand, they must deal with gender oppression within their families & communities.' आत्म सम्मान उजागर करो।। कितनी मार खाऊगी? अपने आस्तित्व को समझ कर 🔥 evocation करो- BHI TUM hou🔱 🛑 practising religion THAT is used as tool of sub lateral CULTURAL Coercion & subjugation धर्म नहीं सिखाता अन्याय सहना और करना ।तुम्हें बदलना होगा
before IPV numbers alarming,😰 the true scale of domestic violence is likely higher as STIGMA,silence due to concept of Honor, IZZAT, हय्या pervasive & INTERNALIZED makes victims hesitant to disclose their abuse. AND WOMEN ALSO oppress, abuse women धर्म के नाम पर. "In self reported research Men tend to overestimate their partner's violence while underestatimating their own. At the same time, Women overestimate their own& underestimate their partner's. THIS explains why self reported research often shows similar levels of violence by men & women, even though other research clearly shows that WOMEN ARE DISPROPORTIONATELY THE VICTIM."

"The few birds seen anywhere were moribund; they trembled violently and could not fly." (Silent Spring) Plight of       ...
05/16/2023

"The few birds seen anywhere were moribund; they trembled violently and could not fly." (Silent Spring) Plight of ENDEMIC violence against Women. HOMELESSNESS. Food poverty. Family violence. Opioid crisis. Violence in schools, at work, on Inflation lands Can any fix IT?👂 INSTITUTIONAL pervasive BREACH OF PROCEDURAL FAIRNESS, corruption within systems 😱 HOW will you protect yourself? At ALL times SELF reflect DISCERN between illusion & reality 👁️
PRACTICE self compassion, armour SELF with tenderness, kindness, loving inquiry. SHUT🚪 to destructive criticism, comparison, challenge hetro-patriarchal archaic dogmas, oppressive cultural practices,& GOSSIP. out women's lateral violence & incivility towards other women🧐
🛑 Aligning with patriarchy=competing 4 Male attention & sexual objectification for material gains are NOT 🏆! EMBRACE AUTHENTIC is = awakening of THE LIGHT= SPIRIT= SOUL that runs the body; withOUT it just a Let your inner guide you. NEVER ignore IS DIVINE SELF not bewildered by ego 🧘
VICTIMS
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  ridicule       objectification   NEVER reflection of    👉      "shamed", de- pressed, 'moral injury' DEVASTATION NOT y...
05/04/2023

ridicule objectification NEVER reflection of 👉 "shamed", de- pressed, 'moral injury' DEVASTATION NOT your fault! Put the shame where it belongs- ON perpetrator/s him Return ALL hurts back to sender= perpetrators 🤲 👉Cover-ups, concealed evidence of wrongdoing, lack of accountability, transparency
will NEVER be hidden from THE JUDGE that sees, sustains all sentient beings 👁️ Practice ending self harm behaviours; 'Going crazy' is part of dialectic trauma BUT woman is NOT crazy. ASSURE sense of SELF, evocate 'SPIRIT ' with loving kindness, compassion, trust to diminish numbness, & hyperarousal. Affirm position of solidarity with TRUTH -I AM Enough 🧘❤️
Suffering is controlled WHEN mind is Free from self blame: emotions arising due to biases, prejudices, contamination & conditioned habituation patterns. Develop holistic COPING skills
'Depression & anxiety can be rational response to environmental & life situations but maybe pathologized clinically. Limiting treatment to pharmaceutical intervention is likely to discount the context of women's lives. Underlying issues such as grief or the effects of trauma may be dismissed or remain unaddressed.' (The Women's Service Strategy Work Group, 2005) Stay home =
Use your LOUDER, be fearless -'Healing does not mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.'
power IS Inwards not outward 🙏🏼 🔥


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   , Heal, Nurture    🕊️🌱"The world is one family" अयं निजः परो वेति गणना लघुचेतसाम् । उदारचरितानां तु वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम्...
04/22/2023

, Heal, Nurture
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"The world is one family" अयं निजः परो वेति गणना लघुचेतसाम् । उदारचरितानां तु वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम् ॥ [ MahaUpnishad VI.71-73.] 🗝️
Mother Earth "Teach me to forget myself as melted snow forgets its life. Teach me to remember kindness as dry fields weep in the rain. Teach me courage as the tree which stands alone. Teach me suffering as old stones suffer with memory. Teach me resignation as the leaves which die in fall. Teach me regeneration as the seed which rises in spring." Bless the planet🌍 my Motherland, every 🙏🏼 Bless sentient beings reading THIS 🧿🙏🏼❤️🌞
we can 🙏🏼

🛑   VIOLENCE against    'In America, it is often said that poor & Third World women are physically & mentally "tougher" ...
04/17/2023

🛑 VIOLENCE against 'In America, it is often said that poor & Third World women are physically & mentally "tougher" than middle-class white women. However, they have not assumed political leadership within the middle class or liberation oriented Third World communities. Neither have Third World women been able to successfully protect themselves or their daughters from the crimes against them by both Third World & WHITE men.' (Women & Madness, P. Chesler) there is an increasing sense of isolation, unsafe conditions, homelessness awareness: RACIAL DISCRIMINATION, LACK OF SUPPORTS
It's a challenge to fit in Canadian culture (ASSIMILATION)in face of Anglo Saxon INSTITUTIONAL along with dealing with heinous gender oppression within familial unit & community "Bringing Indian students to Canada has become a lucrative business spanning two continents." (Canadian outlet Globe and Mail) they are cashcows for Canadian higher education sector bringing in 7-8 BILLION DOLLARS क्या आपकी बेटी canada में सेफ है? क्या वह आपसे अपने दिल की बात कर सकती है कि उसके साथ यहाँ क्या हो रहा है? वह कैसे जिंदा है ?
👉'..corpses of 5 to 6 students each month..some bodies turn up with ligature marks, indicating possible su***de & others bear signs of overdose/ half a dozen young girls arrive in distress as they were pregnant."( STUDENTS FROM INDIA FACE LOTS OF CHALLENGES IN CANADA: EXPERTS by Anirudh Bhattacharya) karyea pahley
Begin Peace at 🏡
Give daughters wings of 💪🏼 VICTIMS कर्ज मत लिजिए उसे यहाँ भेजने के लिए🙏🏼 DON'T label her paagal, crazy, बदमाश,रंडी। Validate her pain, coping mechanism, distress, sadness CARE 🙏🏼 Himmat badaiyae ghatiyae nahi Not a surprise to learn that hold the dubious distinction of having the highest rate of su***de, attempted su***de & self- harm among young women than any other group living in Western countries.( McKenzie & Serfaty& Crawford 2003)🙏🏼

  'Traditions are the guideposts driven deep in our subconscious minds.The most powerful ones are those we can't even de...
04/05/2023

'Traditions are the guideposts driven deep in our subconscious minds.The most powerful ones are those we can't even describe, aren't even aware of.' (Ellen Goodman) WOMEN kept caged by traditions? 'My Dr. mother in-law treats me like s**t ,treats her daughter like Apsara. Throws weight around 'Pati ki Seva Dharam Hai mai kitni bhi busy houn Lekin khana mai hi banati hou.Father in law loud verbally abusive OFTEN- my husband HATES being around his father. Whole family dynamic TOXIC they are NOT what they present to outsiders.VERY SAD NO longer want to be with husband as he cannot stand up to his mother 's abusive behavior towards me. He says I'm NOT TRADITIONAL too westernized. My life suffering 💔NEVER saw this side of him BEFORE marriage.cannot talk to my own Mother as she'll blame me TOO! WHY so stuck in traditions, my is so abusive too💔.' WHEN women REFUSE to mount the Hetro-patriarchy's sacrificial altar willingly they ARE labelled binna SANSKAR= OreoCOOKIES!
If unwilling to be 'relatively interchangeable servant' THEN freedom comes at a cost.
EDUCATE Tum Bus APNI bun JAOU 🪞👁️💪🏼🧿❤️ आत्मा की आवाज़ सुनो हमेशा🙏🏼
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