01/21/2025
Welcome to the Toronto Cupid Project! 💘
If you’re reading this, thank you for being here. The Toronto Cupid Project is an independent and experimental initiative I’ve created to offer the kind of dating experience I wish I’d had.
Let me share a bit about why I started this:
I’ve always struggled with the impersonal nature of text-based communication. It feels disconnected—like it’s missing the human element that makes conversations meaningful. At the same time, jumping straight into meeting a stranger 1-on-1 can be overwhelming.
- What if they aren’t who they say they are?
- What if they’re using a fake profile?
- What if it’s awkward, but I feel stuck because I’ve already invested time and money?
- What if the situation becomes unsafe?
..These anxieties can take the joy out of dating, leaving you feeling discouraged.
With all the apps, endless swiping, and the same repetitive conversations, I started to wonder: surely, I’m not the only one struggling with this. I asked myself, In an ideal world, how would I like to meet someone?
Here’s what I came up with:
Video calls as a starting point ---
A quick video call feels personal but low-pressure—a way to build rapport and create a foundation before meeting in person.
Events with a purpose ---
I love the idea of connecting with people through activities or shared interests. But at most events, it’s hard to tell who’s available or open to dating, which can make things awkward.
Vetted matches ---
A personal recommendation based on real data and anecdotes of why someone may be a great match for me on a deeper level with safety precautions in place and the ability to give feedback anonymously to the matchmaker on what I did or didn’t like to improve future recommendations.
And that’s how the Toronto Cupid Project was born.
What’s the plan?
If there’s enough interest, I’ll start with:
- Virtual speed-dating events: Fun, low-pressure group video calls to meet compatible individuals based on a questionnaire.
- In-person meet-ups: Curated group events tailored for singles with shared values and interests.
- 1-on-1 matchmaking (optional): For participants who seem like a perfect match, I’ll arrange introductions with safety and comfort in mind.
The goal is to create a dating experience that’s intentional, safe, and refreshing—a way to meet people authentically without the stress.
Interested?
If this resonates with you, start by filling out the questionnaire linked below. Your input will help shape this project and make it as inclusive and meaningful as possible.
Let’s build a dating community that feels personal, safe, and exciting. Thanks for joining me on this journey!
Questionnaire:
https://form.jotform.com/250200187092043
