Date on Purpose

Date on Purpose This is not speed dating. This is not a mixer. This is what dating feels like when someone actually thought it through. Come as you are.

Leave as more of yourself. ❤️‍🔥
Events for singles in their 30s, 40s, 50s. 60+

05/12/2026

Let’s face it 👇

Dating has gotten….extremely complicated.

At this stage…most of your friends are coupled off.
They have busy schedules. They have kids with busy schedules. Maybe even have grand kids. Nobody’s setting you up anymore. It just doesn’t happen.

And the apps? In a city this size, you’re swiping past people you went to high school with. Your ex’s friends. Someone you matched with in 2019 and definitely don’t need to revisit. The pool feels smaller and smaller every time you open that thing.

And the ones you don’t recognize? Half of them are checked out before the conversation even starts. One foot in, one foot out. No one’s really risking anything.

Because at this point, we’ve all been through some s**t and opening up to a stranger from the internet feels like a lot to ask.

So you stay on the apps. Swiping away. Wishing it was different. Going through the motions. Telling yourself this has got to get better… but the cycle continues.

So, where the heck are you supposed to meet someone new!?

Enter…

Date on Purpose is a curated and intentional space, full of real single people ready to find something real.

No profiles. No catfish. No thirst traps. No one showing up looking like a completely different person. Just you, as exactly who you are …meeting real humans who are showing up for the exact same reason: connection 💜

Spots are limited and these events are filling up fast.

💥 April 23rd (30–45) and May 8th (45–60) — limited tickets remaining.

If you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do something different — this is the something different.

👉LINK IN BIO.

It’s not trying too hard, memorizing a bunch of tips you heard online, or saying the perfect thing.And it’s definitely n...
05/01/2026

It’s not trying too hard, memorizing a bunch of tips you heard online, or saying the perfect thing.

And it’s definitely not about putting on some filtered, watered-down version of yourself.

The kind of effort I’m talking about?

It’s vulnerability.

…just not in the way people usually think.

Not the emotional, spill-your-life-story kind.

The kind where you actually show up.

Where you’re in the conversation.
You ask something because you’re genuinely curious, you listen to the answer, and you say what you think instead of what you think sounds good.
You stay in it a little longer, even when it’s not perfect yet.

Because that’s what most people avoid.

Not knowing the outcome.
Feeling a bit awkward.
Risking rejection.

So instead, we keep things surface-level, play it safe, hold back… and decide quickly so we don’t have to risk anything.

And then we say, “there was no chemistry.”

But nothing really had a chance to happen.

What I’ve seen at Date on Purpose is different.

People take that small step.
They lean in a bit more, stay a little longer, and actually meet each other.

And that’s when things start to get REAL interesting.

👉 If that’s the kind of energy you value and are done wasting your time - this is your sign.

Date on Purpose (45–60) is happening at on May 7th and this is exactly what you've been waiting for. You in?

Limited men’s spots available. Link in bio.

There’s a point where it’s not about knowing what you want anymore.Because, let's face it - you already do. But the way ...
04/30/2026

There’s a point where it’s not about knowing what you want anymore.

Because, let's face it - you already do. But the way you've been doing it... isn't.

It’s about whether you’re actually putting yourself in situations where something has the chance to happen.

and the truth is... most people aren’t.

Not because they don’t care. They really do.
But because the endless options, the people they've been meeting - don’t feel worth the time, the energy, or the risk.

So they jam pack their life instead.

Work, routines, kids routines, the same places, the same people… and their dating plans become something "you'll get to when you have time”

This is one of the few spaces where that changes.

Not because it’s perfect.
But because it’s intentional.

This is dating differently.

📍 Cookie Bar | 1093 Drouillard |
📅 May 7th 2026
👥 Ages 45–60

Spots are limited to keep the room balanced. Women's tickets are capped. Limited reduced spots for men available.

If you’ve been waiting for a dating experience that ACTUALLY makes sense, this is it, promise.

You’re headed out on a date with someone you’re definitely attracted to.So in theory… this should be easy. The conversat...
04/30/2026

You’re headed out on a date with someone you’re definitely attracted to.

So in theory… this should be easy. The conversation should flow. It should feel natural. Right?

But a few minutes in, you can already feel it. You’re both talking… but not really clicking.

You’re listening, but you’re also in your head thinking about what to say next, wondering if they're ok with someone having kids, replaying how they just answered that question, trying to figure out if this is even getting to a second date.
..and you know what? they’re probably doing the exact same thing.

It’s exhausting.

So instead of actually being in the conversation, you’re both trying to figure it out while it’s actively happening.

You’re not even mentally in the same room.

It starts to feel a little off.
A little forced.
Not what you expected.

So you call it.

“Well… there wasn’t a spark. No chemistry.”

But most of the time, that’s not what that is. It’s two people who never actually got out of their heads long enough for anything REAL to build.

We're all trying to decide too quickly…so nothing really has a chance.

Date on Purpose is different.

People aren’t rushing to leave.
They’re not checking the time every few minutes.

If anything, they’re looking for a way to stay a little longer, to finish a conversation, or go back to one that actually had something there.

Not because every conversation is perfect…but because they’re actually IN IT.

They’re present.
They’re curious.
They’re paying attention long enough to experience the person in front of them.

And that’s when chemistry has a chance to show up.

Surprise! That's when dating actually starts to feel different.

👉 If you’re ready to experience dating differently, get in the room for the 45–60 event on May 7 because this is built for better dates.

Limited men’s spots available. https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/1984927622953?aff=oddtdtcreator

I know you've been looking at this event for a while now...So... what are you waiting for?First drink is on me.You in? 👇...
04/22/2026

I know you've been looking at this event for a while now...
So... what are you waiting for?
First drink is on me.

You in? 👇

❤️‍🔥 APRIL 23rd | Ages 30-45 | (ONLY A FEW TICKETS LEFT FOR BOTH!)
❤️‍🔥 APRIL 24th | Ages 60+ | (FIRST BLOCK OF WOMEN'S SOLD OUT!!!)
❤️‍🔥 MAY 8th | Ages 45-60 | (FIRST BLOCK OF WOMEN'S SOLD OUT!!!)

🔥 Grab your tickets before it's another night of aimlessly swiping on your couch...
👉 https://linktr.ee/dateonpurpose.co

So... what are you waiting for?First drink is on me.You in? Grab your tickets before it's another night of aimlessly swi...
04/22/2026

So... what are you waiting for?
First drink is on me.

You in?

Grab your tickets before it's another night of aimlessly swiping on your couch... https://linktr.ee/dateonpurpose.co


So what does this actually mean?It means these spots are filling with people who actually decided to show up.Not "maybe....
04/21/2026

So what does this actually mean?
It means these spots are filling with people who actually decided to show up.
Not "maybe."
Not "I'll see how I feel."
Not another night on the couch waiting for something to change on its own.

They chose THIS experience. On PURPOSE.

🔥 And for the men out there over 60, wondering if they should go for it... the room is going to look very good. You're outnumbered in the best possible way. You're welcome.

But more than the numbers...

You're walking into a room where you belong from the second you walk through the door. No performance required. No judgment waiting. Just people who showed up fully, honestly, ready to actually meet someone.

That's what this is. These are your people.

👉 If you've been sitting on this — this is the moment where you choose to show up. First drink's on me.

Because once these spots are gone, they're gone.

❤️‍🔥 Find yours with the LINK IN BIO 🔗

You clock in, swipe until your thumb goes numb, spend 30 minutes crafting the perfect opener, wait, only to get ghosted,...
04/14/2026

You clock in, swipe until your thumb goes numb, spend 30 minutes crafting the perfect opener, wait, only to get ghosted, then start all over again again.

Maybe you get a date. Maybe the date is just “OK”. Maybe “OK” is the best word you can find for it. Yet, you drive home wondering why “OK” feels so disappointing when you used to want so much more than that.

And then you do the thing. The thing we all do.
You wonder if you're the problem.

Too picky. Too much. Too in your head. Not putting yourself out there enough. Putting yourself out there too much. You run the audit on yourself and come up empty … because honestly, you're doing everything right.

You're showing up. You're trying. You just keep ending up in the same annoying place.

You're not the problem. The whole system is designed to keep you searching, not finding. The culture rewards performance over actually being present. We've been handed a completely broken framework and told this is the only way to find something real.

They’re wrong. There is another way. One that doesn’t feel like you’re caught in a game of Hot or Not.

That's why I built Date on Purpose. because I genuinely believe that real connection doesn't happen in a profile. It happens in a room. In a conversation.

A place where two people are open and curious about each other instead of evaluating based on a filtered profile and a bio that explains their life in emojis.

Everyone is registered. Everyone is vetted. Everyone is there for the same reason you are… connection.

The next Date on Purpose event for ages 30–45 is April 23rd at Cookie Bar on Drouillard.

Grab your ticket in my bio. Tickets are limited!

04/12/2026

I didn’t create Date on Purpose because the world needs another dating event...

I created it because over the years, I got tired of watching good people lose faith in themselves and humanity. I know, because it happened to me.

Friends. Family. Kind. Thoughtful. Interesting people. Good partners.
Are slowly shrinking inside dating text threads.
Overthinking every message.
Waiting on people who say “we should totally hang out” that never actually hang out.
And then blaming themselves for it.

The good news? The problem isn’t you.
It’s the environment we're trying to date inside.
We’ve gotten used to vague effort, half assed presence, and keeping people at arm’s length and we call that behaviour “normal.” ...but really it’s just safer.
I think we’re all craving something braver than “safe.” I know, I'm not the only one .

I wanted to create a room where that stops.

💜 Where effort is mutual.
💜 Where curiosity replaces instant chemistry.
💜 Where guessing isn't a thing here.
💜 Where you can sit across from another human and ask, “Do I like how I feel when I'm with them?”

So to answer the "what's in it for me?" question...

Yes, there’s a free drink.
Yes, there’s a snazzy gift bag.
👇
But the real gift? It's what happens when you bring your presence, your attention, and a little courage to show up ...without all that armour you walk around with.
I’m not promising answers, guarantees or the secret to finding your twin flame or the love of your life.

BUT... what I want this event to bring you is clarity, relief, and the reminder that connection doesn’t have to feel so hard...and you’re 100% not doing it alone.

If you're ready to date differently, this is the perfect place to start.

❤️‍🔥Register for ONE of THREE EVENTS Date on Purpose Events coming up! (link for age groups) https://linktr.ee/dateonpurpose.co
I urge you to get your ticket ASAP.

I didn’t create Date on Purpose because the world needs another dating event...I created it because over the years, I go...
04/12/2026

I didn’t create Date on Purpose because the world needs another dating event...

I created it because over the years, I got tired of watching good people lose faith in themselves and humanity. I know, because it happened to me.

💜 Friends. Family. Kind. Thoughtful. Interesting people. Good partners.
💜Are slowly shrinking inside dating text threads.
💜 Overthinking every message.
💜 Waiting on people who say “we should totally hang out” that never actually hang out.
💜 And then blaming themselves for it.

The good news? The problem isn’t you.
It’s the environment we're trying to date inside.

We’ve gotten used to vague effort, half assed presence, and keeping people at arm’s length and we call that behaviour “normal.” ...but really it’s just safer.

I think we’re all craving something braver than “safe.” I know, I'm not the only one .

I wanted to create a room where that stops.
💜 Where effort is mutual.
💜 Where curiosity replaces instant chemistry.
💜 Where guessing isn't a thing here.
💜 Where you can sit across from another human and ask, “Do I like how I feel when I'm with them?”

So to answer the "what's in it for me?" question...
Yes, there’s a free drink.
Yes, there’s a snazzy gift bag.
👇
But the real gift? It's what happens when you bring your presence, your attention, and a little courage to show up ...without all that armour you walk around with.

I’m not promising answers, guarantees or the secret to finding your twin flame or the love of your life. BUT... what I want this event to bring you is clarity, relief, and the reminder that connection doesn’t have to feel so hard...and you’re 100% not doing it alone.

If you're ready to date differently, this is the place to start.

❤️‍🔥Register for Date on Purpose (link for age groups) https://linktr.ee/dateonpurpose.co
I urge you to get your ticket ASAP.

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