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12/09/2020

"Opinions Runnin Round Like a Wild Goose Chase"

Scripture: Proverbs 18:2.

“Fools have no interest in understanding; they only want to air their own opinions” (Proverbs 18:2, NLT).

Big idea

Proverbs 18:2 brings to light foolish behavior that is not accepted by God. Godly wisdom and the truth of God’s Word are not important to a fool; they are more interested in sharing their thoughts. When understanding and opinions clash, they will always follow their own heart by saying what they believe to be right. An opinion in of itself is not wrong. It is not that people cannot have opinions; it is that they do not want to understand all views on the matter. We value our words before considering God’s heart. We have bent, reconstructed, and reshaped the rationales for why our opinions are practical, judicious, right, and righteous. Our opinions emerge supreme before hearing from God or heeding Godly wisdom.

However, as followers of Jesus, we do not have the luxury of formulating our own opinions; we have “denied ourselves” (Matt. 16:24), so even our opinions should be rooted in the Word of God. An opinion outside of what God has said is ungodly, and it is a form of self-satisfaction and self-promotion that is dangerous. In those moments, we deny Christ by making our thoughts supreme and, therefore, an idol. The Bible calls this foolishness, and over the last few months, many of us have been guilty of esteeming our opinions and ideas above the truth of God’s Word. So today, we are reminded to stop and ask God for wisdom before we give our opinions.

Reflection

In this current climate, you may feel like you have to “air out your opinions,” but remember that at the heart of airing out opinions is a love of self and pride. Do not follow your heart (Jer. 17:9). Instead, before you respond, STOP, and seek to follow God’s heart and His Word. Remember that Godly wisdom helps us remember that if we love God and others, love does not demand to have its own way (1 Cor. 13:5).

Personal reflection

In this current climate I have struggled with_____________________, and I have been guilty of ____________________.

Prayer

Dear Lord, I confess there have been times when I have made my opinion an idol, and my actions have revealed that I have placed my opinions above others and even above Your Word. Forgive me for valuing my opinion over Godly wisdom and today, help me pursue peace for mutual upbuilding, by refusing to air all my opinions and becoming better at listening to my brothers and sisters in Christ. In Jesus Name, I pray, amen!

11/09/2020

Not Too Much"

Scripture: Colossians 4:6

“Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person.” (Colossians 4:6, NASB)

Big idea

Occasionally, our speech can be like salt. The right amount of salt can season a meal, but too much salt can ruin it all. For this reason, in Paul’s letter to the Colossians, he uses the metaphor of salt to illustrate how Christians should speak to each other. Salt, in Paul’s era, was valuable. It was so treasured that it could be used as currency or money. It was appreciated for its ability to preserve and flavor food. In that regard, Paul's metaphor reveals that a Christian's speech should be valuable, and "flavored" differently from a non-believer. However, Paul’s metaphor had more than one meaning because, in Paul’s time, salt also kept the meat from spoiling.

To the world, the gospel that we all say we love will be spoiled if our words to one another are unsavory and unpleasant. Following the commands of Christianity, preaching, teaching, praying, and biblical knowledge will be meaningless if they prevent us from reaching as many people as possible because our words have not preserved the message of Christ. Paul was reminding us that what we say can destroy our witness. Your words should add value to the conversation, and benefit and esteem others (Eph. 4:29). Your words should indicate that you value God’s Word because Christ is communicated through a transformed Christian life and a positive presentation of the gospel. To answer the world as Christ would, you must present truth using God’s words and a God-like attitude.

Reflection

We should desire wisdom from the Scripture to be wise in our response to God’s voice and our response to others so that our words and actions are flavored with salt and honor God.

Personal reflection

This week consult God on all that you think, do, and say. For example, “God, is what I am about to say seasoned with salt?” “God is this what I should do, think, or believe?”

Prayer

Dear Lord, show me how to desire your wisdom and voice so that nothing that comes out of my mouth will be unsavory and spoiled. Let grace correspond with my speech. May my words be seasoned with salt, pure and incorruptible (Amen)

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15/05/2020

The Financial Journey

People admire financial success
They despise financial failure
They fear financial crisis
And they seek financial deliverance

We must understand financial principles
To implement financial strategies
And eradicate financial difficulties
So as to attain financial stability.

Humility enhances financial growth
Assiduity ensures financial management
Creativity enhances financial expansion
Pride destroys financial attainments.

If we mustn't remain financial cripples
We must reach out for financial freedom
By receiving financial education,
The pathway to our financial destination.

By Atuobo Lisa.

15/05/2020

TEENAGE PREGNANCY

Teenage pregnancy is no one's fantasy
Yet it becomes a reality for many
Who fall victim to their curiosity and naivety. At thirteen to nineteen they are already expecting.
The experience is scary because they aren't ready.

Teenage pregnancy is not satisfactory
Yet it can become a testimony for those
Who receive appropriate guidance.
With support and love, pregnant teens can thrive.
The experience can be fruitful, if their guardians are careful.

Teenage pregnancy attracts sympathy
Yet it also attracts mockery in a society where people are very judgemental.
For fear of humiliation, abortion sometimes is an option.
The experience can be deadly, if abortion is encouraged.

Teenage pregnancy is not the end of life
Yet many pregnant teens have stopped living.
Dropping out of school, being a mother, they think it's over.
The experience can be better, if they keep pursuing their dreams.

Teenage pregnancy is not always coz of promiscuity. Yet other factors like r**e and abuse have been downplayed.
Protruding belly as a teenager always signals; she was reckless.
The experiences can be reduced, if abuse is seriously sanctioned.

Teenage pregnancy is destructive
Yet it is still prevalent especially in developing countries.
Children giving birth to children daily
The experience will be reduced, if more context specific sensitisation is done.

By Atuobo Lisa

15/05/2020

I WAS R***D

He tore my clothes in rage
Like he was tearing a page
Dragged me against the wall
Pulled my hair all through the hall
He mounted on me with force
While he breathed heavily like a horse
I cried and begged with all my strength
But it seemed like I was already in hell
It is true, I was r**ed.

They blamed me for how I dressed
what about those r**ed though in sarees?
They said I didn't fight hard
How hard can you fight a dead heart?
They said am a woman; my "no" mean "yes"
If I say yes will the ra**st take it for no?
They blamed me for rejecting his proposal
Should everyone I reject r**e me?
It is true, I was r**ed.

He disfigured my face
Dislocated bones was my case
I was infected with STIs
So I cried out my pretty eyes
I became angry and bitter
Couldn't even imagine having a lover
I tried using drugs and alcohol
To ease my troubled soul
It is true, I was r**ed.

I felt I was less of a woman
Until I learnt something important
I am still a woman like other women
I may have been r**ed,but I can still be great
R**e isn't justified though I'm blamed
I choose to be an inspiration to other victims
With my story, I will sound my victory
My r**e experience is my motivation
It is true, I was r**ed.

By Atuobo Lisa

NANNIES/HOUSEMAID PART 2Parents and nannies must work to foster an environment where open communication is appreciated a...
29/04/2020

NANNIES/HOUSEMAID PART 2

Parents and nannies must work to foster an environment where open communication is appreciated and valued. Open communication allows nannies and parents to share information, concerns and aspirations as they work together to raise the children.

To keep the lines of communication open, parents and nannies can establish a quick morning and evening debriefing routine, maintain a daily log, have a daily check-in time and hold a weekly or monthly meeting.

Parents and nannies should encourage each other to bring up concerns as they come up, to ask questions and to share feelings or concerns with confidence that they’ll be listened to.

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