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29/03/2026

Happy palm Sunday my people.
Alot of strange and scary happenings around the world frightens even the bravest of hearts😭😭.

The happening between America and Iran after the Iranians close the stretch of Hormuz, which has led to a surge in fuel prices globally.

Around us here in Bamenda , the alternative temporarily bridge that collapsed on the 26/03/2026 at mile 2 Nkwen leading to g loss of human lives and several families searching for their loved ones who are no one to be found wether dead or alive.

This bridge was build to ease the movement of people as road works continous.

May their souls rest in peace and may God grant the families consolation during this difficult times.

27/03/2026

As parents it's very important for you to know that your son will not come to you and say he's confused about s*x, and need advise.

That is not how it works, that is not how boys are wired and that is not the culture most of our homes have created. He will sit with his confusion, piece together answers from wherever he can find them and make decisions long before you realise a decision was even being considered.

So waiting for him to come to you is not a strategy, it is a gamble, and the stakes are too high for gambling.

The conversation has to start with you, and it has to start before you think it is necessary, because by the time it feels necessary it is usually already late.

But here is what most parents get wrong when they finally do sit down to have this talk. They instead lecture, warn, list consequences and paint worst case scenarios and then wonder why their son nodded politely and never brought it up again. A boy who feels like he is being "talked at" will shut down, but a boy who feels like he is being "talked to" will open up.

So ask more than you tell, find out what he already knows, what he has heard, what his friends are saying, what he is curious about and meet him there, not with shock, not with judgment but with honesty and with the kind of calm that tells him this conversation is safe.

Because the goal is not one talk that covers everything, the goal is a son who knows that whenever something comes up, whenever he is confused, pressured or unsure, your door is the first one he knocks on and not the last resort after everything else has failed.

That kind of relationship is built in small moments of honest conversation, and it starts today.

Share this with every parent who has been waiting for their son to bring it up first.

25/03/2026

We need you to pay attention to this one.

April is fast approaching, and registration for FIBWOM's beauty training programme in Bamenda is still open, but not for long.

If you have been thinking about it, this is not the time to keep thinking, this is the time to act.

10 slots, 10 young women, 10 lives about to be changed forever, and every day that passes without registration is a day closer to those doors closing.

Do not let hesitation steal your opportunity.

This is what you are signing up for: four weeks of professional beauty training covering hair installation, pedicure and manicure, makeup artistry and business branding, plus a startup kit worth 50,000FCFA waiting for you at the finish line.

But before you reach out, here is who this programme is for:

You must be resident in Bamenda, from a low income home, between the ages of 18 and 35, willing to pay a registration fee of 5,000FCFA, and most importantly you must be ready to show up, take the training seriously, and commit to the full four weeks.

This is not for the half-hearted, this is for the woman who is done waiting and ready to build.

If that is you, do not spend another minute scrolling, send us a message right now with your name and tell us you are ready, because once those 10 slots are filled, they are filled.

And to our sponsors and partners: these young women need your support before April 1st, give what you have, every contribution goes directly into making sure every registered woman has everything she needs to start strong.

Together we put smiles on the faces of these young women, but we have to move together and we have to move now.

Do not wait until tomorrow, send us a message tonight.

24/03/2026

She Is Worth More Than You Think

There is a young woman in your community right now who is worth more than her current situation suggests.

She is not where she is because she is lazy, she is not where she is because she lacks intelligence, she is not where she is because she does not have dreams.

She is where she is because nobody has invested in her yet. And that is something we can change today.

Research has shown consistently that when a woman earns, she does not keep it to herself, she feeds her children better, she invests in their education, she supports her ageing parents, she contributes to her community, she lifts everyone around her.

Investing in a woman is never a single transaction, it is a multiplier.

Every 50,000FCFA startup kit FIBWOM hands to a young woman in Bamenda this April is not just capital, it is a catalyst, it is the beginning of a business, the beginning of financial independence, the beginning of a story that will outlast all of us.

But we cannot do this without you.

We are actively looking for sponsors and partners who understand that investing in a young woman is one of the highest returns any community can generate, give what you have, 1,000FCFA, 10,000FCFA, 50,000FCFA, it all adds up, and together we put smiles on the faces of these young women and set something in motion that goes far beyond this April.

Send us a message today to become a partner and to be a beneficiary .

23/03/2026

The Ripple Effect of Empowering a Woman

When you empower one young woman, you do not just change her life.

You change the life of every child she will raise, every family member she will support, and every customer whose confidence she will build in her salon.
One investment, endless ripples.

Think about it this way: a young woman in Bamenda learns to install hair professionally, she sets up her own business, she earns consistently, she pays her children's school fees, she employs a younger woman to help her, that younger woman learns by watching, and before long another business is born.

That is the power of one skill in the right hands.

That is the power of one sponsor who said yes.

FIBWOM is creating that ripple this April for 10 young women in the North West Region, and we are inviting you to be the stone that starts the wave.

Be a sponsor, be a partner, give what you have, because together we put smiles on the faces of these young women and the ripples go further than any of us can see.

Send us a message today to partner with FIBWOM.

22/03/2026

Your son is already building his idea of what it means to be a man. The question is who is doing the teaching.

If it is not you, it is the street. And the street has a very specific definition of manhood that we need to talk about.

According to the street, a man is measured by how many girls he has been with, how much fear he commands, how little emotion he shows and how willing he is to do whatever it takes to prove he belongs. These are the lessons being absorbed daily by boys whose fathers are silent, whose mothers are exhausted and whose only available teachers are peers who are just as lost as they are.

And the tragedy is that most boys do not even know they are learning the wrong thing. It feels like confidence. It feels like belonging. It feels like becoming a man.

But it is not manhood. It is a performance of manhood that costs boys their character, their relationships, their future and sometimes their freedom.

Real manhood looks very different.

It looks like a boy Who can hear the word NO without retaliating, take responsibility for his actions without deflecting, be honest even when it is easier to lie, treat a girl with respect not because he has to but because he understands her worth and his own.

It looks like a young man who knows that his value is not in what he has conquered but in who he is becoming.

That kind of man is not built on the street. He is built at home, in conversation, in correction, in the quiet daily moments where a parent looks their son in the eye and says this is what we stand for, this is who you are, this is the standard we hold in this family.

Here is what every parent can do:

✅ Talk to your son about what manhood actually means, not just what society says it means.
✅ Challenge the narratives he is picking up from music, peers and social media by showing him examples of men who lead with character, not aggression.
✅ Tell him directly that his worth is not tied to how many girls want him or how tough he appears.

21/03/2026

"Your Story Is Not Your Sentence"

Can we talk about something that too many young women are carrying in silence?

The weight of where they come from.

Some of you grew up in homes where money was always a struggle, where opportunities were scarce, where the people around you had given up so long ago that giving up started to feel normal.

Some of you have been told, directly or indirectly, that women like you do not make it, that your background is your ceiling, that where you started is where you will finish.

We are here to tell you that is a lie.

Your background is not your sentence, it is your story, and there is a very big difference between the two.

A sentence confines you, a story propels you, a sentence says this is where it ends, a story says this is where it begins.

Every woman who has ever risen from nothing to something did not do it because her circumstances were perfect, she did it because she refused to let her circumstances be the final word.

She showed up anyway, she learned anyway, she built anyway, and she kept going on the days when everything around her said stop.

That woman is you, she has always been you, she was you before anyone told you otherwise.

21/03/2026

Yesterday we talked about what parents should teach children between 10 and 16years. Today we focus on older teenagers and give every parent the tools to actually start this conversation at home.

If your child is between 17 and 19years, be direct and honest with them. Talk openly about pregnancy, s*xually transmitted infections and the emotional weight of s*xual activity, not to frighten them but to prepare them. A young person who understands real consequences thinks more carefully before making decisions.

Talk about consent, that it must be willing, clear and ongoing, that silence is not agreement and that pressure of any kind cancels consent.

If your child is already in a relationship, ask honestly, are they being respected, do they feel free to say no, is there any fear or pressure present. Stay calm when they answer, your reaction determines whether they ever come to you again.

Share your values then ask what they think. A child who feels heard makes more thoughtful decisions when you are not around.

Here is how to begin.

Pick a relaxed moment, open with love and ask what they already know before you start talking. If something they say surprises you, manage your reaction because a parent who overreacts once will not hear the truth again.

End every conversation the same way, "you can always come to me with anything, I would rather you hear it from me than from anywhere else."

This is not about one perfect conversation, it is about a child who always knows your door is the first one they knock on.

Share this with every parent who has been putting this conversation off, your child cannot afford to wait any longer.

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20/03/2026

What every parent should teach their child about s*x, starting from age ten.

Most parents wait until their child is older before having this conversation. By then the child has already filled the silence with whatever they found elsewhere, and what they found was rarely accurate or safe.

Here is what the conversation should cover and when.

For children between ten and thirteen, keep it simple and focused.

Tell them what puberty looks like before it happens. A girl who knows about her period before it arrives is not afraid when it comes, a boy who understands the changes in his body does not have to be embarrassed learning about it from classmates. Normalise the conversation early, before the changes begin.

Teach them that their body belongs to them, that no one has the right to touch them without their permission, not a friend, not an adult, not even a family member. Teach them to say no without guilt and to report any uncomfortable touch to a trusted adult immediately, without fear of getting into trouble.

For children between fourteen and sixteen, go deeper.

Explain what s*x actually is, clearly and honestly. If you do not, someone else will, and that someone does not love your child or care about their future. Your explanation should cover what it is, what it is not and why it carries both emotional and physical consequences.

Help them understand that s*x is not just physical, it carries emotional weight, especially for young people who are still developing. Teach them the difference between genuine connection and physical attraction alone.

Equip them with the confidence to say no even when everyone around them seems to be saying yes. Talk through real scenarios with them, confidence in saying no is built through practice, not assumed.

And talk about protection and contraception, not as permission but as information. A child who understands contraception and s*xually transmitted infections is far safer than one kept ignorant in the name of innocence

19/03/2026

Women Leading in Today's World

Look around you and tell me what you see

Women in operating theatres saving lives, women behind microphones shaping public opinion, women at the head of boardrooms making decisions that move economies, women in their kitchens building businesses that feed families and employ neighbours

The woman of today is not waiting to be handed a seat at the table, she is building her own table and inviting others to sit

But here is what we must be honest about: not every woman has had the same access, not every woman started on the same ground, and not every woman has had someone invest in her potential the way her potential deserves

That is the gap FIBWOM is closing

This April in Bamenda, 10 young women will receive professional beauty training and startup kits worth 50,000FCFA each, because we believe the women of the North West Region belong in that same conversation about leadership, impact, and economic power

To every young woman reading this, the world is moving and there is a place in it with your name on it, do not let it pass you by, pursue skills, build boldly, and maximise every opportunity that comes your way

And to everyone who wants to be part of this, we are looking for sponsors and partners, give what you have, together we put smiles on the faces of these young women as they take their place in the world

Send us a message today

18/03/2026

If you have not talked to your child about s*x, someone else already has. The question is what they were told.

Most parents assume their child is innocent, unexposed and waiting for the right time to learn. But by the time a child is twelve, thirteen or fourteen, they have already been exposed to more than most parents realise, and the sources are rarely reliable.

Here is where adolescents are actually getting their information from.

Their peers, friends who are just as uninformed but speak with confidence, who pass on myths, half truths and distorted ideas about s*x, relationships and the body as though they are facts. And because it is coming from someone their own age, your child believes it.

The internet, unfiltered, unrestricted and available at any hour. A curious adolescent can access content in sixty seconds that no child should be consuming, and most of them have, not because they are bad children, but because curiosity is natural and the internet has no parental instinct.

Older peers, boys and girls who are already s*xually active and are normalising that experience within their social circle, who make experimentation sound exciting, consequence free and like something everyone is already doing.

Music and social media, where s*x is glamorised, bodies are objectified and relationships are reduced to something casual and disposable. Your child is absorbing these messages daily, often without anyone helping them process what they are seeing.

The information is already there. What is missing is your voice to provide context, values and truth alongside it.

Tomorrow we talk about when exactly to start this conversation and why most parents wait too long.

Share this with a parent who thinks their child is too young to be exposed to any of this.

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