Fearless Speakers

Fearless Speakers I help brilliant people bring their ideas to life and present them with impact from the stage. Click on 'Book Now' for your FREE consultation

Despite my naturally introverted and quiet nature, the stage is where I have most felt at home from a very young age. I first began playing organ at the age of six and when I started I was even too short to reach the pedals! My parents and grandparents started finding me ‘gigs’ soon after that and I became used to performing as an organist and then subsequently a pianist in local clubs and venues.

As I reached my teenage years I began writing songs and performing in bands as a keyboard player and vocalist which I have done ever since. Music gave an introvert like me a safe way to express myself and develop a natural and engaging stage presence. My naturally quiet character led me into the day job world of accountancy and soon after qualifying I took the opportunity to become a technical trainer at a Big 4 accounting firm. Over the following 15 years I delivered hundreds of training presentations, honing my presenting skills and finding ways to bring dry material to life by making it more engaging and fun. I enjoyed this work but I also felt an urge to make a difference to people’s lives. It was around this time that I discovered coaching and it was a discovery that changed my life. In 2016, I qualified as a certified co-active professional coach with CTI, the largest and one of the most respected leadership development training organisations in the world. Shortly thereafter I started my coaching business, helping people to bring their ideas to life and share them with their chosen audience. As well as providing them with tools and techniques to deliver great speeches and presentations, I work with my clients to help them access the most natural and engaging versions of themselves. I do this by exploring their values, strengths and leadership style. I also help them to get past the mental blockages (such as fear, self-doubt and self-criticism) that often get in the way, especially for introverts. I also bring my experience as a musical performer to the table. I work on vocal technique, embodiment exercises and stagecraft to help my clients ‘own’ the stage, as well as practicing techniques to help them to deal with nerves and stage fright. In 2019 I started performing stand-up comedy. I bring my training in this area to my clients and show them how to naturally inject humour and playfulness into their material and persona on stage. I also help them to connect with and read their audience more successfully, which is an essential skill for a comedian. As well as coaching others, I regularly tell my own story from the stage, chairing a local speakers’ club and attending story-telling groups around London.

Dutch friends! As well as hanging out in Haarlem next weekend I'm also going to be running one of my embodied story shar...
15/02/2024

Dutch friends! As well as hanging out in Haarlem next weekend I'm also going to be running one of my embodied story sharing circles on the Sunday morning (25 February) where we get to share life stories in a welcoming and intimate space (six participants max) for learning and healing.

Before we start the story sharing we will practice mindful embodiment techniques. These will help us to connect more deeply to ourselves and each other, increasing our capacity for learning and trust. Then we will take it in turns to share stories from our lives.

My sharing circles are designed to help you grow and learn from the stories you share and those you listen to. As you will be embodying your own story, there is also the opporunity to heal wounds from the past.

If this sounds like something you'd benefit from, you can sign up at the link below, or please do share with anyone you feel would appreciate it.

https://www.fearlessspeakers.co.uk/upcoming-events

I was so scared to give my first presentations at work. I remember watching some of the partners giving these impressive...
10/05/2023

I was so scared to give my first presentations at work. I remember watching some of the partners giving these impressive technical lectures and thought, “I could never do that!”

It held me back for a long time because I thought I had to be like them and that just wasn’t me. My style is so much more informal and humour-led. Could I really give training presentations in my own style at a Big Four Accounting firm?

At first, I didn’t think I could. So, the first few presentations I gave were very much ‘talking by numbers’. They were OK, but I felt constrained. And also nervous.

So I started adding my own style. And slowly but surely, people started to really connect with me. And not only did presenting become a joy to me, rather than causing me anxiety, I became much more well known and connected with people at work. In short, I got speaking and got visible!

Join my upcoming training, "Get speaking and get visible" and discover how finding your own style can help you make a big impact as a business owner, even if you don't consider yourself an extrovert or a natural speaker.

During this free training, you will learn how to find your own style or own it more fully. Whether you're just starting out or looking to grow your business or message, you will get some insight from this webinar. See the link in the bio to register.

I was sitting there with my palms sweating and my heart racing at a hundred miles an hour. I wanted to get up and run ou...
06/05/2023

I was sitting there with my palms sweating and my heart racing at a hundred miles an hour. I wanted to get up and run out of the door. But I knew I couldn’t. Because I cared with a passion about training the people sitting in front of me.

This was me, just before I gave my first presentation at work to a group of new joiners. I was so scared but I knew that if I was going to make a difference to these people, I was going to have to get over my fears. So, I did it. And it wasn’t great, but it started a year long process that saw me go from nervous and scared to being a confident and accomplished speaker.

And you can too.

If you run a purpose-led business but you’re holding yourself back from speaking as a way to promote your work I have a great opportunity for you.

Join my upcoming training, "Get speaking and get visible” where I’ll be sharing some of my top tips on how you can overcome your fears and have a big impact as a speaker, even if you don't consider yourself an extroverted or natural presenter.

Click on the link in the comments below to register. I’m looking forward to seeing you there!

09/02/2023

I'm really excited to be taking a cohort of speakers on a journey starting later this month to craft and deliver their signature talks. If you've ever wanted to give a TED-style talk to promote your ideas, personal cause or purpose-driven business, it's not too late to join us. Drop me a comment below or DM me and let's find a time to talk before the end of the weekend!

I feel honoured to have been interviewed last week by my friend, John Sigmon, for his Podcast series 'Expand Your Frame'...
27/01/2023

I feel honoured to have been interviewed last week by my friend, John Sigmon, for his Podcast series 'Expand Your Frame'. You can find it here- https://lnkd.in/eGr523Z9

John's podcast examines the three pillars of his leadership framework: transformation, love and connection, which are at the heart of his organisation and coaching practice. John is one of the most warm hearted people I know and someone I have huge respect and gratitude for. His own journey demonstrates how important these three pillars are in bringing one's leadership to the world.

In this episode, we discuss my own views on transformation, as seen through the lens of my journey:

- from a shy guy who couldn't speak to even a small group of people to an accomplished public speaker
- from a control freak and serial planner to someone who fully embraces an improvised lifestyle

and I offer up some useful hints and tips for anyone looking to follow the same journey.

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We humans are natural born storytellers. We are hard wired to create connection and are blessed with a vivid imagination...
24/01/2023

We humans are natural born storytellers. We are hard wired to create connection and are blessed with a vivid imagination that can bring stories to life in our mind's eye.

And.... storytelling is also a skill we can develop further to help us create even more impact on and connection with others.

I have been running storytelling circles for a few years now and I have found that every story is precious and... those told by the most experienced storytellers move me even more.

Over the years, I have used stories to:

- help my clients and friends open up by sharing myself vulnerably and giving them permission to do the same
- attract new clients as a business owner
- create connection and empathy with friends 
- make my songs more relatable and memorable
- bring my stand up comedy and improv to life

If I was a parent, I'm sure I would use stories to relate to and entertain my kids too!

I'm really excited to be bringing all my storytelling tips together in one turbocharged workshop on Saturday 4 February near London Bridge, U.K. and you're all cordially invited. You'll learn how to create more connection and impact with your stories and practice in an intimate, encouraging group. You can sign up visiting the ‘Upcoming Events’ section of my website (link in bio.)

Hope to see you there! If you have any questions, give me a shout!

Richard x

For many years I thought I could never be a successful business owner. I didn't think I had the experience or confidence...
22/12/2022

For many years I thought I could never be a successful business owner. I didn't think I had the experience or confidence to ask people to pay me for the work I’m passionate about delivering. I second guessed myself all the time and constantly played small. I am sure a lot of you business owners out there can relate to that!

In the past 12 months, though, I have had a real shift in my mindset. This has given me the confidence to schedule two major product launches for the first quarter of 2023.

As we reach the end of this year I have been reflecting on the main things that have contributed to my change in mindset. Granted, I still have plenty of times where I doubt myself but I recover much more quickly and don’t let set backs put me off as easily. Read my top 5 on Linked In (search for Fearless Speakers)

What have you done to help you combat your imposter syndrome?

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22/08/2022

Your talk, presentation or indeed any form of communication will be so much more powerful if you set an intention.

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