30/04/2018
Taking your kids fishing is good for the body, soul and in my case, can earn brownie points which are duly cashed in to go fishing alone.
Here are some of the things I have learnt to make the whole thing a pleasure for all. This is based on personal experience and I am sure many other anglers have some different ideas and opinions.
Food is a weapon.
Keep the little monsters well-fed and hydrated and their energy levels high – no-one likes a whingey angler. On the beach or the bank, I always have a small bottle of antiseptic handwash which help keeps the smell and taste of lugworm off the marmite sandwiches.
There is no such thing as the right temperature.
Kids are often too hot or too cold and soon let you know it. Wrap them in several layers which can be unpeeled/added to before the whining starts.
Let them do the work.
Children like to be busy – setting up the ‘camp’, baiting the rigs, casting and reeling in can all be done by children over three or four with varying degrees of assistance and success. Let them practise and try to be patient. I fail at this.
Let them do more work (Eco Warrior Alert)
What about a little beach cleaning? This activity needs to be monitored by a responsible adult or if you don’t have one of those, do it yourself. Glass bottles, even needles can be found on our beaches so be careful. Clearing up after other anglers helps teach your children not be like the idiots who leave lugworm wraps, fishing line and disposable BBQs behind. Make the anglers of tomorrow better than the ones of today.
A fish is a fish.
Large or small, they all count. Send them back alive to where they came from after the photo. Despatch the ones for the table humanely and tell the children what is happening and why. I do not shy away from the relationship between what we eat and where it comes from.
Everyone gets out alive.
With the exception of the fish for food thing, fatalities are frowned upon. The shoreline can be treacherous so take sensible precautions. Think about the weather and tide conditions, slippery groynes, steep shingle banks and of course the depth of water at the surf line. Plus all the other 4,776,591 things parents have to worry about to keep their spawn safe.
Give them something to write about.
Let your mini-yous keep a diary to stick in photos of the fish they caught or to write things they did down. It will give them fond memories of you and may influence their decision in deciding your care home.