28/07/2026
I keep thinking about an ordinary Tuesday. I wake up with my wife and children. We eat breakfast together and I take them to school.
I train on the way home, then work on my business in my own quiet office. When the children come back, I stop. We go to their training, ride bikes, play games and spend the evening as a family.
Later, there is time for my wife. Sometimes we take the day off and go somewhere. Maybe in a campervan, with a few hours of work because I want to, not because I have to.
It sounds simple. To me, that is freedom. The strange part is that I am building this ordinary Tuesday with days that look nothing like it.
I wake at 5am. I work a full-time job, often six days a week. I use the minutes before work, the drive, my break and the drive home to build with my agents, think and learn.
In the evening, after we feed our son and put him to sleep, I work another three or four hours. Some nights I accidentally fall asleep next to him.
I have not had a free weekend I can remember. My last short holiday was four days in Cornwall more than a year ago.
I am not proud of being exhausted. I do not want this pace forever. I do it becuase I am not trying to stop working. I am trying to reach the point where work becomes a choice.
And I could never do it without my wife. During this season she has reached the ninth month of pregnancy while caring for our two-year-old. I still come home to dinner and coffee. She finds space for me to work one more hour before bedtime, even when time is the thing we have least of.
We do this together. I carry much of the cleaning and shopping, feed our son and put him to sleep. She carries me in ways that are harder to list. She is my biggest supporter, my advocate and the person who believes in the life we are building before it exists.
I love her. I am deeply grateful to her. I would not be here without her.
When I finally leave my job I may not work less. I love building a business too much for that. I will still work hard. But I will work because I choose to, from the place I choose, around the people I love.
If you are in the same season, I want to know you. Working full time. Raising children. Building before sunrise and after bedtime.
Not because everyone has to live this way. Because some of us know we cannot build an exceptional life from whatever energy happens to be left.