02/04/2026
A year ago, on World Autism Day, I officially became the mother of an autistic child. My child was reborn to me through a different perspective.
I, who have always fought for diversity and inclusion as a professional, and who was silenced and violated in different ways during childhood and adolescence, thought I knew what to do. I was mistaken. Because the professional became a mother. And being the mother of an autistic child hurts deep in the soul.
Without romanticising it, life changed colour, because I had to look at details I had never needed to notice before. I had to experience pains and expectations I could never have imagined.
But today I am here. Stronger, more determined to make it work.
My child is intelligent. And I am not speaking only about cognitive development. I am speaking about a unique brightness, about a presence and a gaze that cut through the ordinary. And how magical that is! Because many people do not see, or may never be able to see, life in such different and unique colours and shapes.
Darling, I will always be here forever, guiding your steps and showing you that, although society is not yet prepared to fully welcome you, I will always be your safe harbour, your constant presence, and the greatest supporter of your precious abilities.
Thank you for letting me be your mother, in all the (im)perfect ways I can be.
Happy Autism Awareness Day! Happy every single day, my shining star 🌟
I love you.
Mum.
