15/05/2026
Getting what you want at work – whether a leader, boss or worker – depends a lot on your negotiation skills.
Have great negotiation skills and you get: the help you need quickly; you get sensible targets and objectives you can actually beat; you work on interesting activities, initiative and projects; you get more of your boss’s time; you cause less upset around the business; you build a stronger reputation faster …
Your ability to negotiate and get what you want for your team and for the business DIRECTLY impacts how SUCCESSFUL you are AND how others PERCEIVE you at work.
I have worked in top companies, turned around failing companies, transformed the worst team in a business, been promoted a lot of times … negotiation played a massive part in all of these.
There are six approaches I use religiously when negotiating. Each plays a very important role in getting what I want at work.
The first approach is knowing exactly what you want BEFORE you start negotiating. This should be SPECIFIC, quantifiable, and CLEAR.
Vague, rough, ballpark is not enough. When you get specific, you can then work through the different routes to getting to your specific goal. Then you can think through the resources you need for each, the pinch points, the constraints.
This gives you a list of “must haves” and “nice to haves”. You cannot succeed unless you get all the “must haves” that overlap for each route.
I know this sounds like a lot. Get into the habit of mentally going through this process before starting any negotiation and you will know exactly what you need and what you can give away to get what you need. The more you practice, the quicker you will get.
A few minutes of planning can save you hours of discussion / negotiation.
To learn about the other 5 vital approaches to becoming a great negotiator, I invite you to click on https://youtu.be/Oc_8CSmI0rU