27/08/2015
Have you ever noticed that when you have an outward sign of your disability people do not know how to address you? I carry a white stick, so yes, you have guessed it, I am visually impaired.
It wasn't until yesterday when I was on my way to an event that I really noticed it. Now, as I was walking in through the vehicle entrance, I saw two people wearing Hi-Vis jackets. As I got closer I moved to the side so I was practically hugging the fence. Those of you who are VI will know what I'm talking about. Then all of a sudden one Hi-Vis crossed to the other side, or at least his jacket did, since that was what I could actually see of him, and then he started shouting: " Over here, this way, come on girl" (whistle), "Over 'ere girl" (another whistle and patting his knees). Again, more emphatically, "Over 'ere" (whistle, whistle) and again "Girl, GIRL!"
You can guess what I thought – oh, he's talking to a dog! But I couldn't hear or see one. Oh well, I guess the dog will emerge sooner or later...
It wasn't until I almost collided with the second Hi-Vis that I realised that:
a) He too was visually impaired as he had a guide dog, and
b) Hi-Vis one was talking to me
Some of you might think it was obvious that he was talking to me, but if you are used to hearing owners address their dogs then you may be able to understand my confusion..
Now, I don't know, perhaps I'm old fashioned but what is wrong with going up to a person, gently touching an arm and saying "Excuse me, Sir (or Madam), you're about to walk into someone or something. Can I help you to safety or can we take a few steps to the right or left?"
What do you think? Have you had similar experiences? Please share!