02/06/2026
🔥The older I get, the less interested I am in being liked by everyone and the more interested I am in liking myself.🔥
That's taken me a while.
I used to travelled solo regularly, work and for fun.
Then life happened.
Building a business. Selling a business. Parenthood. Family responsibilities. Looking after everyone else. Getting used to being needed. Somewhere along the way, I lost a little of that confidence and independence.
Over the last year or so, I've found it again.
Not because I need less from other people. We're all human and connection matters. But because people, jobs, connections come and go, your circumstances change, and life can look very different from one season to the next.
The one constant through all of it is you.
So learning to enjoy your own company, trust your own judgement, be KIND to yourself, and feel comfortable in your own skin is one of the most valuable investments you can make.
It's also something I see often in coaching conversations. The biggest breakthroughs rarely come from becoming someone different. They come from needing less external validation and becoming more comfortable being yourself.
And honestly? That's one of the best things about getting older.
❤️
(Posted from a solo trip)🇭🇷 🌞