25/09/2021
This is a tale of kindness and connection.💚
A few days ago, I was invited to attend one of my coaching course diploma full-day sessions face to face.
I hadn't spent time face to face with people that aren't my family or friends for nearly two years.
I was excited and nervous at the same time.
Turned out, I felt incredibly conscious of the distance between me and my fellow coaches.
I developed a stomachache and I felt uneasy the whole day.
Over lunchtime, I was starstruck: I bumped into author and coach Jackee Holder, whom I admire: her column on Psychologies magazine and her webinars are illuminating; she reignited in me the lifesaving practice of journaling.
Jackee was teaching the other cohort of coaches.
I felt incredibly shy (who, me?!) but I gathered my courage and went to speak to her, said how much I love her work and how she helped me (unknowingly) with renewing my love of journaling. She was lovely and warm, and I felt better I made a connection.
The second day of the course, she came to me at lunchtime, and gave me two writing maps she published full of prompts to write in nature.
They are beautiful and inspiring, and she couldn't have known that I LOVE nature 💚 and my work is all about saving it from being destroyed. My heart swelled more than she could have expected.
Those two days felt serendipitous.
18 months of isolation from my fellow humans left me in a robotic state. I felt uneasy sharing a room with others.
The kind gesture of another human reopened my heart and melted that awful feeling.
The moral of the story is:
human connection is the most authentic way of being yourself. Make an effort to connect at a human level, be kind, show interest, show the most vulnerable part of yourself when safe to do so, and you'll see how you and others can change for the better.
PS you can buy the maps via Jackee's website jackeeholder.com