11/06/2026
Something a participant said about facing what we avoid🔑
Shared by eTACSEN Managing Director Terence Yeung
I want to share something a participant said after a recent Everything DiSC® Certification session, because I think it might resonate with you too.
At the end of the workshop, one of the learners stayed back to share a reflection. He was honest in a way that caught me off guard. He said:
"Maybe originally, when facing my leaders… I wanted to escape."
That line landed heavily in the room. Because I think many of us know that feeling. The instinct to avoid. To stay quiet. To hope the difficult moment passes.
Then he continued: "This course inspired me on how to face it. How to understand. And I very quickly took action — I started some conversations. Because I really want to build a relationship and trust with them."
🏆What I'm learning (again and again)
I used to think I was teaching a behavioural framework - DiSC Styles, the language of priorities and preferences.
But what I keep witnessing is something quieter and more personal. People don't just learn about others in these sessions. They learn that the person they've been avoiding — maybe a leader, a peer, someone they find difficult — is not unknowable. They're just different. And that difference, once understood, stops feeling like a threat and starts feeling like a doorway.
There's a moment when a participant realises: "I don't have to escape this person. I just need to approach them differently. And I can do that."
That moment is not about memorising a model. It's about courage. The quiet kind of courage that shows up in a hallway conversation you've been putting off for months.
💡An invitation to reflect
I'd like to invite you to sit with just one question, quietly, for yourself:
Is there a conversation someone on your team is avoiding right now? One that, if it were handled with a little more understanding and a little more skill, might change something important?
If the answer is yes, perhaps it's worth pausing to consider what could shift if that conversation were approached differently.
And in the meantime, I hope that participant's courage — the decision to stop escaping and start building — gives you something to think about. It certainly did for me.