05/03/2024
SELF DOUBT??🤔🤔🤔🤔
How big is the word? The word is just a few alphabets long but the meaning and the intensity with what it strikes and effects our mind is all that it plays.
We Indian ladies👩👩 being highly educated and well qualified🎓🎓 when sacrifice our knowledge , education and work skills after stopping our jobs or work to look after our families enters the world of SELF DOUBT
because we have totally indulged ourselves in kids, home, relations all..
Though they are inseparable part of our lives but the question arises why we left our knowledge, skills and let the feeling of doubting self started sinking in ourselves?
We start doubts at each and every step of our life....
When we go to shop 🛍️💸 for ourselves we need a person to decide🧐 for our own self to tell whether I should take it or not.
How I should talk or express my feelings to somebody or let be silent🤐🤫😶 because the doubt is hovering over minds if I say something wrong... ❌
We can't participate in discussions because we don't have updated knowledge about outside world. We are limited to kitchen and kids and families.
Do we think we have reached our late 30s and early 40s where we won't find any opp@rtunity because we have no experience to do a particular job or work.
We are lacking behind because kids are more intelligent and they know beyond us though in technical terms too.
We feel hesitant to ask if we would be mocked at.
Then ladies UNVEIL YOUR COVER OF SELF DOUBT...
If u find learnable, you have the mindset to learn something new. Update your skills. Take time out of ur free time that we spend in chit chats, scrolling, gossping, useless reels.
Be the best version of ur self. Think beyond your life u r living.
Opp@rtunities are there but it is possible that u may take time to brush them up but it is definitely not there that u can't think big or learn.
We are more mature in our mindset now than we were in our 20s. Now we have more power of our strong mind with 20 plus years of experience of life because at the end it is the life that matters.
Be a support to your family not only financially but also emotionally.. Let you be the role model for your kids that you can achieve something at this age too.
You are a multitasking personality that God has created.
Think big and beyond like....
Though I am heading towards menopause over the coming years but that won't let my spirit die. I will be more moody, annoyed but the spark to be learnable will brighten me with each passing day.
I will let myself grow for my own self to be proud of. If I can handle all my household responsibilities well over the years and still I will be doing then I can and will do to myself too. I will be doing for ME so that once I leave the world my kids, my families 👨👦👧👩👴👵, my parents have the proud moment for me.
I will overshadow my self doubt with my self confidence.
Time is still in our hands till we hold our last breath. Only trigger we need is to give power wings to mind and soul and rest the 🌎world will follow.
Be a woman 👩 of substance.
Be the real you. 👩
Message me if you are looking for such an opp@rtunity.
S Kaur
Digital business consultant
