28/09/2021
So many tears, sacrifices!! U gave up so much..this is all for whom and what?? relax..Just relax!!
Ever thought Why the giver often feels empty and drained out? Is it because we dnt draw lines? We don't know how to say NO to certain things? Are we always busy in making others happy n hurting ourselves with endless sacrifices?
This happens when we as individuals forget to draw boundaries of how much to compromise and sacrifice for the sake of family or even our professional lives.
As professionals, we should not continue giving all our energy at a workplace to keep our bosses and employers happy.
Need to learn how to say NO to certain obligations which kills us inside.
We need to be firm when telling our families that we are not happy with their decisions and will not be able to make the adjustments and give up because for the sake of their happiness.
Remember - Our dreams and ambitions are also important, much like our employers and family members. If we give it up every time, we will be just watering their garden with happiness and leaving ours with drought.
have the right to be happy
have a choice to opt
have the right to deny anything that hurts us