14/10/2026
THE FIRST HOUR AFTER A MISTAKE
On Monday, we shared the day Alfred Kilasi carried the wrong papers to an event.
His story tells us what he learned.
It leaves a question many PAs carry quietly.
What do you do in the first hour after a mistake?
The speech is mixed up. The room has seen it. Your executive is looking at you.
Here is what tends to separate the professionals executives keep trusting:
They say it first.
Before someone else does.
They keep it short. “I did this. This is what happened as a result.”
The long explanation of why can wait.
They arrive with a fix.
Not only “I’m sorry.” What they’ve already done, and what they propose next.
And once things are calm, they say what will change.
Because executives rarely forget the mistake.
They remember what happened next.
If the reprimand was public, ask for a private conversation once everyone has calmed down.
That conversation is where trust gets repaired.
What would be your first sentence to your executive after a mistake?