AuxilliaParentis : Assisted Parenthood Consulting

AuxilliaParentis : Assisted Parenthood Consulting Auxillia Parentis literally means to facilitate parenthood. We provide unbiased, professional and ex

On the path to any kind of self-development, a good mentor is a massive blessing and I would even go as far as saying th...
19/08/2023

On the path to any kind of self-development, a good mentor is a massive blessing and I would even go as far as saying that having one is mandatory! A person who is willing to listen, guide and most importantly, expend their social capital for your benefit. If you are a bit confused, don't be! Yes, I am a Fertility lawyer and one of my biggest mentors is a Fertility doctor! To be an effective mentor, what is critical is the willingness and ability to commit to the betterment of another and not necessarily being in the exact same profession. But, I digress.

Today I celebrate one of my biggest blessings, my mentor Dr Ibrahim Wada. If you have struggled with infertility in Nigeria, you would know that Dr Wada is not only a pioneer in Fertility medicine, but also a shrewd businessman and an exceptional human being.

Very many blessings for your birthday and always, Sir.May your children reap the rewards of all you do to help others grow.

Lots of love from all of us at Oka'mara Law.

“This is the child of my brain, the product of my endeavour, and the materialisation of my inventive genius". A day in t...
15/05/2023

“This is the child of my brain, the product of my endeavour, and the materialisation of my inventive genius".

A day in the life of a Nigerian fertility lawyer.







“This is the child of my brain, the product of my endeavour, and the materialisation of my inventive genius."          N...
15/05/2023

“This is the child of my brain, the product of my endeavour, and the materialisation of my inventive genius."




Naija Fertility Lawyer


Dear Friends and Fam, this is Undiga and I am a contestant in the *YouTube Channel Challenge* by Dr. MalikThe goal is to...
12/02/2023

Dear Friends and Fam, this is Undiga and I am a contestant in the *YouTube Channel Challenge* by Dr. Malik

The goal is to get my first *100 YouTube Subscribers*. Please support me by subscribing to my channel *Fertility Law Nigeria*I have more than 2k Facebook friends so let's see how many subscribers I can get!

Click this link & hit subscribe 👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6dOt3v3BLczqNEHRnnXTdw
Thanks

"Welcome to Fertility Law Nigeria, the leading source for information and guidance on fertility law in Nigeria. We are a team of experienced lawyers speciali...

The Latest Nigerian Surrogacy ScandalIn the last couple of days, Nigerians have been regaled with the details of a surro...
13/04/2022

The Latest Nigerian Surrogacy Scandal

In the last couple of days, Nigerians have been regaled with the details of a surrogacy arrangement gone horribly wrong.The twists and turns can rival any Nollywood thriller! I am grateful to the many friends who have taken the time to tag me in different fora where the discussions have been running.

Before I start, let me say that Nigeria like many other countries does not have a specific legislation for assisted reproduction including donor egg, donor s***m and surrogacy. What many people do not know is that in spite of this lacuna/gap in the law, many are taking advantage of the pool of excellent fertility doctors, competitive prices and internationally comparable success rates in Nigeria. Nigeria is a veritable fertility treatment destination in it's own right! All you need to do is look around on the internet and you will find groups where you can advertise for egg and s***m donors based on their physical characteristics and location etc. Potential surrogates offer their services openly. Whatever you may think about the ethical and other dimensions of these practices, they are happening a lot more than you think.

One of the reasons for the lack of awareness is that infertility is such a taboo topic. I know because I practice law in this area in two countries and most of my consultations in Nigeria are after dark. I don't feel bad if my clients neither say hello in public nor refer me to others because I understand how sensitive the issues are. The downside of this silence is that people are deprived of the opportunity to learn from the experience of others.Until bad cases like the one we are talking about hit the socials.

The latest surrogacy scandal has given me a lot of material on how not to arrange a surrogacy. Many lawyers will agree with me that it is amazing how many people will engage in complex transactions and either refuse to engage a lawyer or offer peanuts for the services of one!I would be very surprised if the parties to the agreement in question had proper legal advise, but what do I know right?

The comments of the many people who have weighed in on this matter have been instructive as well as bewildering. There is so much ignorance about surrogacy that more than 5 posts will be required to educate people as to what exactly is happening legally and otherwise. By far the most stunning remarks were those made in rebuttal to the surrogate by the intending parents based in the US.

I think that the main threads of arguement relate to the following points:

1. What kind of contract is a surrogacy arrangement and is it legal in Nigeria?

2. Can a surrogacy contract be valid in the absence of a written document?

3. Are there any limits to the level of compensation that a surrogate can demand in exchange for her services?

4. Where the surrogate's own eggs were used in the surrogacy procedure, is she the genetic mother of the child or a mere incubator for rent? What are her rights?

5. What are the rights of the commissioning /intending parents and under what circumstances can they terminate the surrogacy contract?

6. Are the intending/commissioning parents entitled to terminate the contract because the children were born early?

I am sure you will agree that there are quite a few weighty issues to cover. If you are interested in these issues, please follow this page! I promise to make it worth your while!

Undiga Emuekpere
Solicitor
13th April 2022



Bamofin Muyiwa Kusimo, Certified Thompson, Ebenezer Egwuatu , Kola Alapinni, Tina Canice Beshel, Tina Hanis, Umali Oko, Olabisi Ekwueme Ajai , Nkem Olisa Esther Olisa-aseme, Adeniyi Aderinboye, Femi Adeyemi-Ejeye, Eme Aderinokun, Helene Blakiiz , Maria Helen , Fertility in Infertility Rotola Williams, Margaret Akpoyoware , Margaret Dakwat, Jesus Joy Etienam , Adaeze Chidolue Ibeabuchi, Adaora Nweke Ogbuefi, Tokoni Odey-Ogbaji, Agnes Umoffia , Agu Obasi, Akolisa Louis Anyaduba, Uche Akuneme, Alorye Ugar, Amaechi Ipeh, Amy Onugba, Agianpe Ashang, Nkechi Nwosu-Igbo

DISCLAIMER: PLEASE NO PARTS OF THIS OR ANY OTHER POSTS SHOULD BE USED AS LEGAL ADVICE BASED ON EITHER UK OR NIGERIAN LAW.====
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27/03/2022

Happy Mothers Day, all who mother and those waiting to.

Just a little note to those still on the assisted parenthood journey. Your feelings, your pain, your frustrations are va...
02/03/2022

Just a little note to those still on the assisted parenthood journey. Your feelings, your pain, your frustrations are valid. Nobody can tell you how to feel. It's your feet in those shoes. Keep pushing. Keep the faith.

On Sunday we will be having a webinar in association with a very special Infertility Support Group:Fertility in Infertil...
05/08/2020

On Sunday we will be having a webinar in association with a very special Infertility Support Group:Fertility in Infertility. Esosa really has a passion for this important but delicate issue. Get the legal angle.Intending parents, egg/s***m donors,surrogates:this is an opportunity to put your questions to a UK/Nigerian Fertility Lawyer have asked a Fertility Lawyer.

17/04/2020

Do you know that Nigeria is a quiet but formidable IVF destination?

17/04/2020

For many people, becoming a parent is something they feel very strongly about. But for quite a few of us, the sad truth is that achieving that dream comes much harder than for others. The pressure in Nigeria to have children can be quite frankly, unbearable. For a society that values children so much, we are strangely reluctant to talk about infertility and much less about the options available. Nevertheless, the struggle as they say, for many is real.

Auxillia Parentis is a full service consulting firm designed to support people on their journey to become parents by helping them make sense of the different assisted parenthood options available in Nigeria to both her residents and her diaspora. We will give you all the information you need to decide which pathway to explore from adoption all the way to surrogacy. We are not a clinic , surrogacy agency or law firm but we work with a select group of all the different professional you will need. Our consultants can guide you through the process and point you in the right direction for your specific needs. Our consultants include Counsellors, Midwives, Social workers, Lawyers and fertility finance advisors.

From the very beginning till the arrival of your bundle of joy, we are here to support you. Give us a call and discuss your requirements. We cover Nigeria and her diaspora particularly the United Kingdom.

Address

39a 5th/Tai Solarin Avenue
Gwarinpa

Opening Hours

Monday 09:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00
Saturday 09:00 - 17:00
Sunday 09:00 - 17:00

Telephone

+2348109958684

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