18/02/2021
An unbeliever can never love,any kindness of an unbeliever is not coming out of Love.
Be attentive,I want to open your eyes to something my 2020 val opened up to me.
You can give out of desire of any kind,even desire to give,desire to obey laws of giving,attachment,conditions,order, and dependency etc.
First,the issue of falling in love. It has always been my sayings that *"you don't fall in love,but it can be birth and be a growing thing*
You can grow in love but you can never fall in love.(Mind you,if you call fall in love as a real factor,you can be wounded,your legs and hands may be broken. So don't even think falling in love is a true deal. Please instead of falling ,kindly grow in love)
Love is a state of being. Either you are or you are not. You can't be falling in and out of love. But actually, that is a momentary craving and a desire. It is a desire and not a love.
I have seen many brothers become a sisters enemy after the sister says *"No"* to their proposals (Meanwhile they have been brothers and sisters in the lord)
Such love is not initially true,the brother has not love in the first place but just having a desire. (Very similar two factors that make many to marry today but having a managing home).
True love don't die,true love don't expect conditions and attachment as a priority (It comes thereafter if need be)
The first place where Love is revealed is in,from and by the God head and the practical of love was also demonstrated by Him. If He created you and you don't have Him where did you get your love?
So these are the following things we count as love which are not Love.
Love has been seen as a give and take things,you do this and I am expected to do that for you too. That is not love but a transaction.
Many people see someone that gives them gifts on their birthday as the one that truly loves them,and this one that bought the gift is also seeing the other as one who is not loving since he or she can't buy for him or her too on his or h
