Royal Apostle Amaefule

20/02/2022

Every wise woman builds... it's not every fight you should instigate. Any woman who does not have money this end time, will suffer. Because there are some things you dont need to tell daddy. You need it to help your children and also to cover your husband nakedness most times.

Father is for strength and mother is for comfort..

The Lord will give you your own, you will not be at the mercy of your husband, God will lift your head.. In Jesus Name!

-Rev Funke Felix-Adejumo


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09/02/2022

BEFORE YOU BECOME A WIFE!

1. HAVE SOUND VISION FOR YOUR LIFE
You are more than a cook and baby factory. You are on a earth for a purpose. What is your vision, what is your mission? What is your reason for existence?

2. HAVE A SOURCE OF INCOME
If you have no job or business you are doing and you are looking for an ATM man to dump all your financial responsibility on, you will end up a leech, not a wife, a sucker, not a giver, a liability, not an asset, a burden not a burden bearer! Get a job!

3. TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY
Some ladies are in their twenties and they look close to their graves, why? How many children have you had? Why are you not firm, smart, healthy and attractive? If you have health issues, darling, pray for healing before you get married. With faith you will be healed. If you eat junks, stop the trash and eat healthy food. Too much sugar, red meat, chocolates are not good for you. They are waiting to affect your body in future.

4. LEARN HOW TO ADDRESS A MAN
You don't talk to a man like your errand boy or primary school mate. You talk to him as your head with respect and honour. If you can't respect a man and regard him as the leader in your relationship, forget about marriage darling or you may end up divorced.

5. LEARN HOW TO COOK
See, men don't joke with their stomach. Learn to cook different types of food and soup. Routine food eventually becomes tasteless and uninviting. Men love adventure. Children love adventure. Cooking different types of soup/ food make your husband stay at home and have no need wandering into bukaterias, cafeterias, eateries etc where daughters of Jezebel may seduce and sn**ch him from you!

6. LEARN ABOUT S*X
Not by practicing for God's sake, you are not yet married. Few months/weeks to your wedding, learn about your s*xual anatomy, s*xuality, reproductive organs, ge****ls, etc. Be familiar with your body and prepare for quality s*x IN MARRIAGE. I get too many chats from naive, ignorant brides and it gets to me. Some even stay off s*x for weeks or months on end after wedding. What's the meaning of that nonsense? If you know you will ma******te or fornicate if you will learn about your s*xuality then wait at least 2 weeks to wedding and read! Take a mirror and look at your va**na, l***a minora, l***a majora, cl****is, va**na entrance, some say if you look close enough you will see your h***n. Each part has its functions in marriage. Get EVERY WOMAN and read. It will help you understand your body better as a woman.

7. BE A PRAYER MACHINE!
A woman who cannot pray is not ready for marriage! Your husband has a great destiny to fulfil, you have a great destiny to fulfil, your children has a great destiny to fulfil and the devil won't fold his arms and watch protect your family by soaking them in prayer! If you are a lazy spiritual bum as a single lady, your prayer life will end up a sorry case after marriage!

Before you become a wife, prepare well so you do not end up a failure in your husbands house. May the Lord grant you understanding.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele
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Heavenly Mandate

07/02/2022

07/02/2022

BORROWING MONEY TO GET MARRIED IS FOOLISHNESS! 💥

She and her husband borrowed over 1 million naira to finance their wedding expecting that they would recover the money on their wedding day but their expectation was totally cut off! Ever since then, she and her husband have been running from pillar to post to settle their debtors! And this is really affecting the peace of the marriage! They cry, argue, quarrel everyday and blaming each other for borrowing for their wedding!

Dear Single, If It Is coke and biscuits you can afford on your Wedding Day, Trust Me, We'll Eat With Love and Still Present You Our Beautiful Gifts. What matters Is The Success Of Your Marriage.

If you borrow for wedding, will you borrow to sustain your marriage? Borrowing to finance your wedding is one of the biggest financial mistakes a couple can make.

Stop postponing Your Wedding Day Because Your want a Big Wedding. No One Has Ever Received An Award For Best Wedding. Don't kill Yourself with Unnecessary Expenses!!!

So many couples in their desperation to have a perfect wedding will go to any length, even incur debt. Do not borrow to marry!
There is nothing worse than starting off your married life with debt.

When planning for your wedding, avoid aiming at impressing people. Make your wedding simple and beautiful. Avoid irrational expenses.

Cut off all unnecessary expenses and transfer to your investment. Never borrow money to finance your wedding!

Wedding is a maximum of two days while marriage is till death do you part.

If you don't have much, do your Traditional Wedding, Invite Your Pastor To Bless The Marriage and quietly Take Your Beloved Wife Home. You are married!

Cake is not a must if you can not afford it. I have never seen a marriage that breaks because the cakes they bake for the wedding was not big enough!

Wedding gown or suit can be rented and reception is not compulsory. Its not the cake or your beautiful wedding gown that determines the success of your marriage! Cake can be big, wedding gown maybe large and marriage can still be damaged!

Wedding is just for a day while marriage is for a life time. Do not use a day to destroy your lifetime. Never lay the foundation of your home on debt. It is foolishness!

Even if you have the money and able to spend millions of dollars on your wedding, why don't you plan for the future and invest the money or try to build your own house instead of wasting money on a ceremony that will last for few hours. Be wise!

Never be extravagant. Remember that what happens after the eating, dancing and merriment on your wedding is your own load to bear as a couple. Spend below your means. Avoid show off. Don't seek to impress.

May the Lord give you more understanding in Jesus name

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Thanks for reading. God bless you.

© Pst Samue Olagbenjo
Photo Credit: Rev. Ntia I. Ntia & Wife
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Heavenly Mandate

25/01/2022

6 KEY FACTORS MILITATING AGAINST MUTUAL CONVICTION IN RELATIONSHIP

Many Single continue to express serious concern and disappointment as to why the one they received and convinced about don't feel the same way. Like I always say, conviction in relationship matters should be mutual. If one partner is deeply convinced and the other is not, then the relationship is null and void.

Some factors are responsible for this.

1. Spiritual insensitivity. The issue with many singles is that of spiritual insensitivity and inflexibility. They believe the same way their pastor or youth President found their wives is the same way they will find theirs. No sir/ma. God is multi dynamic, He deals with each and everyone of us differently even though it's the same God that reach on to all, His dynamism is unequal. In choosing who to marry, sensitivity and flexibility is very important but this cannot be possible if we don't have personal alignment with God, many rely on corporate alignment. Many continue to lose their husband/wife as a result of this.

You always sit with a brother or sister in the church infact you always ask yourself why you do so and you refused to ask God what He's telling you. The spirit of God keeps telling you that he or she is the one and you continue to reject it saying until you see him or her in dream or vision. Your eyes keeps locking and you refused to pull the trigger. While meditating a name just pop up, you still reject it. I can go on and on! God still speaks, in diverse ways but our insensitivity and inflexibility would continue to debar us from knowing His mind.

2. Ethnic background. Many singles still holds ethnicity in high esteem. They believe they must marry from their ethnic group. It is high time we know that in the things of God ethnicity is not in the equation, if a man or womans heart is dominated by it, he or she would not be convinced. Have seen Yoruba man marry Igbo woman etc and they are having a great time together.

3. Family Experience. When a family has negative experience with a particular ethnic group they would definitely go against their children marrying from such place. This will in no doubt affect convictions if the person involved is not resolute in his or her conviction. I remember before I marry my wife's family have issues with people from my state (Want to know my state? I won't tell you Lol), I had to take my time to explain to them that am different. It's high time we look beyond where a person comes from and look at the personality.

4. Deliberate act of refusal. Due to many factors people refused God's counsel. And God cannot force you to do His will, marriage is a matter of choice and not by force. Conviction is subjected to individuals prerogative to choose to accept or reject.

5. Bad influence. The power of influence is real, don't underestimate it. Many are still tied to the apron of their friends, they're living their lives to please others. It is impossible for them to make decision independently on their own, so they are influenced negatively by their friends, so people like that can't be convinced.

6. Physical Attraction. Many are ruled by physical carriage. If the guy or lady is not t**h then a space for him or her in their hearts is not available. Some guys or lady's life can be compared to Prophet Isaiah's narration of Jesus in the book of Isaiah 53, they have no form or comeliness, merely looking at them you don't see the need to be their friend not to talk of marriage, but when you look beyond that and accept them, your life takes a new turn, but if physical carriage is the focus, it will be impossible to see what is inside, not to talk of been convinced.

All these and many more contribute to lack of mutual conviction, which is the bedrock of a great relationship. If you want to be deeply convinced, work on these things.

You know I love you. Stay safe for me please.

A more impactful and responsible relationship is possible.

© Olajide Olawale Opeyemi, 2020
(Coach Triple O)
Relationship, Marriage and Spiritual Success Coach.

Photo credit: Facebook news feed

25/01/2022

MEN WHY? || REV. FUNKE FELIX-ADEJUMO
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God is helping women. There are many single parents that did not plan to be single parents. One lady said to me, she will give 100,000 naira to her husband(she's a lawyer) and say please, you know am going to court now, help me put it in the account.

Uncle will go to the bank, deposit 10,000 naira, take the teller and add more zero and present it to her and so many other things. He was the one that even disvirgin this lady. Today, the marriage is over because of abuse.

Many women are in pains!

One young man called me and I said to him, I was in the US and so and so person told me how you consistently r***d her. I said, God is going to judge you because you kept blackmailing her and telling her she must come back. There is a curse on your head if you dont go and apologise.

Why will you r**e us? Why will you sleep with us and throw us out? And then we get pregnant and you continue with your schooling while we are nursing shame and guilt.

Stop it. The voices of unborn babies are crying because of abortion.

Nurture the ladies in your life. Stop preferring your boys to your girls.
Help us to grow. One day, we will rise up to call you blessed like we are calling Bishop Adejumo.

What name have they not called my husband.
Why will he allow his wife to soar?
Why will he allow his wife to preach?
Now, they are copying him.

Everyday, history is being written. What shall be said about you? Going into marriage, make up your mind to make a mark.

As a man, zip up, stop sleeping around, face your education, help the women in your life, tomorrow history will be kind to you...


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24/01/2022

SINGLES, THIS IS FOR YOU!

I join my faith with yours as we declare that 2022 will definitely be your year of marital settlement.

Therefore...

All marital delays are removed!

All marital spells are destroyed!

All wrong peoples in your life right now are leaving you!

Mercy and grace will speak for you!

You shall be "covenantly" and gloriously wedded.

In Jesus mighty name we pray!

If this prayer is for you, SHOUT a thunderous AMEN!

Friends, I am expecting your wedding invitation card and special wine in this year 2022!

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Heavenly Mandate

22/01/2022

The male was created by God to create what he wants. The woman you are looking for brother doesn't exist, she is in your .

Your job is to take the raw material you married and cultivate it into the woman in your head. So you being married for years and you still don't like the product (woman) that you get? That's your fault.

If your wife puts on a little bit of weight and you don't like the fact that she is putting on weight don't criticize her, wake her up at 6 o'clock and go jugging with her....cultivate her.

You don't like her dress?? Take her down Numero uno shop Akwa and you pay for it. She can't speak good english?? send her to school and pay for her tuition.

Cultivate her to be the finished product or woman you are looking for. Think about it

Dr Myles Munroe

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