16/06/2024
A lot of women are battle ready even when there is no war.
The war they are fighting is against men.
There is nothing causing this war except for what they have watched ,heard or experienced from their choices.
The war they want to fight is in their head even before they get married.
When they get married, problem starts and never ends till they destroy their homes.Most of them do not understand they created these imagery wars.
Even when the man did nothing wrong.They fight him for things that can be talked about.Even as a woman,if I notice you are troublesome.I will avoid you like plague.
A friend was playing a voice note from the group she belonged. A particular lady was talking and talking. I was forced to ask,who is that woman? She is too loud!How can one be stuck in one topic for long like this.Something that should not be a problem. She is dragging it.She admitted that it is who she is. While she played other people's VN,they were saying the same thing.
Everyone can not be saying the same thing about you and you are right.Even your fellow women will avoid you.
The irony of these whole thing is that when real crisis shows up.When reality dawns on them.They will run to the same men for help.98% of women's problems are solved by men including mood swings o.
You were told or you heard men are sc*um.So,before he commits you already suspect him.You make everything a fight.
They told you men are g*old diggers.You believed? How much do you have that a man can collect?many times,it is you who offered to help but because he did not stay with you probably because of your attitude. You tag him a name.
Every relationship must not end in marriage. Just as you chop men and clean mouth(sexually or financially).Men dey chop women dey clean mouth too.It is life and nothing deep that should make you bitter.
Some women are arrogant when they have money.If women are men,they will never be with a woman.Before, you come to her.You will work tirelessly for it.
Ironically, this is what a lot of men can not do because men are nice and innocent . They don't vet a woman.They accept all manners of disrespect in the name of love.If you ask most of them why they love that woman with bad character. They can not give you a reason. At best,it is mostly because they are beautiful or have bress and yash which is still a valid reason. But,if women are in your shoes,they will say "NA BEAUTY I GO CHOP? or " Preek no be food!".
Why can't some men embrace this reality that women will treat you exactly how you present yourself. Act like a mumu,they will treat you like that.Act like a man in his right frame and see how a woman will be in her natural frame .
My brother's wife has created a bond with me.Yet,I give her all the respect as the owner of the house.Instead of calling my brother. I will call his wife.This has created a peaceful environment and she takes care of me like her sister.She pushed me to go do photoshoot with the dress she bought for me.I had to because she is a good woman.
You don't create an assumption in your head and expect a good impression. That thing you are looking for you will see it even when it is not there.
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY TO ALL MEN.GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
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