01/04/2025
Dating now vs dating in the 80s
What's true love? True love is a long-lasting affection between lovers or spouses, who are in a happy, passionate, and fulfilling relationship. Love is to be deeply committed to someone. Have you ever sat down to compare lovers who are truly in love with their spouses from the 80s and the lovers now? Which would you prefer?
Technology and social norms have changed the way people date in the 21st century. In the 80s, If a guy was to approach you, he would call you on the landline to talk and ask you out on a date. Now, if a guy is interested, he drunk texts you on a Friday night. Our old parents had a box of lover letters underneath their beds, now we have texts we never delete even when our storage is full. First dates no longer exist, after checking out Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn, you're a date number four by the time you meet.
I observed that the biggest obstacle in a relationship is having no Wi-Fi connection.
Receiving a mixtape back then is a sign that someone was really into you. Now, if he likes your profile picture on Instagram, it means you two are married. Haha, so funny but sad. Dating has changed in the last century, but how do we singles have it so bad now? Do you think living in a bygone era is a better place to be? I watch and observe the old couple in my neighborhood, they are always happy and healthy. Sometimes I wonder if they have ever had a fight or if they were once separated. Love is a beautiful thing and this couple is a good example of true love. Failed marriages today are a result of the bad foundation built while dating or courting.
In this century, most average woman finds their life partner at the age of 25, while men are more likely to find their soulmate at age 28. Have you experienced finding true love in your fifties or older? This old couple in my neighborhood are married for 64 years and their love for each other never faded. Finding true love now is rare. Someone who fills your life and meets your spiritual, emotional, and physical needs is hard and doesn't happen to anyone.
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