15/05/2026
đź’ of the week
Who do you choose to see?
Short, “young”, South African female… what does she know. You are really weird you know that. Omg she is a lot 🤣
Some of the things I’ve heard people say about me. I used to let this get to me… why can’t I be enough? Why can’t I be normal? What’s wrong with me?
I’ve heard some really harsh head trash this week either self created or running with other peoples bull s**t reflections of what’s going on for them and projecting that onto others.
The reality is we all a bit weird and not normal in our own way, and realising that and embracing it… is what changed the game for me!
But also flipping the script…
It’s crazy hey… a lil powerhouse of a woman in the coaching industry for over a decade, coaching business owners in 3 different countries 🤯 yes, you very well should be curious about what I know🤣.
I love being weird… and that’s weird too, I know🤦‍♀️. It makes me different and special. Everything that’s weird about me, I’m passionate about and it brings me joy. So I’m owning it.
I am a lot🤣 … a lot of passion, a lot of love, a lot of care, a lot of energy, a lot of commitment to the cause, a lot of dedication. A lot of drive. Id be a Ferrari, not a Polo if we all turned into cars tomorrow.
Not everyone can handle that, and that’s ok. The right people will and they are my people.
So the same goes for you…
If you think you’re the one that never excelled at anything growing up, that’s why you not “successful”
If you think you not good enough, and are a terrible business owner but have run a business for over 10 years
If you’ve been told you are not normal.
Or…
if you’ve ever felt like:
you were underestimated
you never quite fit the mould
You were “too different”
You doubted your capability despite everything you’ve already overcome
Maybe it’s time to stop viewing those things as weaknesses.
Sometimes the thing you spent years trying to tone down is actually the thing that makes you powerful and successful in your business and life.
It’s time to flip the script my beautiful ones.
As Bruno Mars says… “cos you’re amazing, just the way you are”
Let your weird light shine bright so your people can find you!