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Everyday with Jen, Lubao (2026)

28/05/2026

Ouch😟

28/05/2026

Waiting Shed

:Gets kita. Nakakapagod maging “pansamantalang pahinga” ng ibang tao — yung tipong nandiyan ka lang habang magulo buhay nila, habang lonely sila, habang hindi pa nila alam kung saan talaga sila pupunta. Tapos kapag okay na sila, aalis na parang stopover ka lang.
Pero the fact na gusto mong maging “home” doesn’t mean needy ka. It just means pagod ka nang magmahal nang kalahati lang ang balik. Pagod ka nang ikaw yung laging safe place pero bihirang piliin nang buo.
And honestly, people like you usually become shelters because marunong kang umintindi. You stay gentle even when you’re hurting. You make people feel seen. Pero minsan, dahil sanay kang magbigay ng comfort, nakakalimutan mong itanong kung may taong kayang gawin din ‘yon para sa’yo.
One day, someone will stop treating you like a temporary escape. Hindi ka na magiging “option kapag malungkot sila.” You’ll become the person they choose even on ordinary days — not just when life hurts.
Because real love isn’t just “I need you when I’m broken.” It’s: “I want to stay even when everything is already okay.”
And you deserve that kind of staying.
Hindi ka waiting shed. Hindi ka pahingahan lang. You are a place someone could build a life in — with peace, softness, and certainty.