10/04/2026
Aaj kal social media ne muhabbat ka ek ajeeb sa “perfect version” bana diya hai jahan ya to mard hero hota hai ya zero. Beech ka koi concept hi nahi. Waliya aur Ahad jese couples ko dekh kar shuru mein lagta hai, “wow, kya caring husband hai!” lekin jab roz roz wahi cheez dekho ek hi banda office bhi ja raha hai, ghar bhi sambhal raha hai, cooking, cleaning, ironing sab kuch to dil mein ek aur feeling aati hai yeh balance hai ya overload?
Masla yeh nahi ke shohar apni biwi ka khayal kyun kar raha hai bilkul kare, zaroor kare, yahi to partnership hai. Lekin masla tab shuru hota hai jab ek insaan “team mate” se “one-man army” ban jaye. Muhabbat ka matlab yeh nahi hota ke aap apne partner ko itna exhaust kar dein ke uski apni identity, uski energy, uski mental health sab peeche reh jaye.
Aur sab se dangerous cheez? Comments section.
Wahan beth kar doosri aurtein apne shoharon ko compare karna shuru kar deti hain.
“Tum to kuch nahi karte”
“Dekho log apni biwiyon ke liye kya kya karte hain”
Yeh comparison na sirf unfair hai, balkay relationships ko andar se kha jata hai. Har ghar ka system alag hota hai, har insaan ki capacity alag hoti hai. Social media ke 1-minute clips pe apni poori shaadi judge karna yeh sab se bari na-shukri hai.
Sach yeh hai ke muhabbat *equal effort* ka naam hai, na ke ek taraf sacrifice aur doosri taraf sirf appreciation. Agar mard subha 9 se 6 job kar raha hai, to ghar aake usko bhi sukoon chahiye hota hai na ke doosri shift. Aur agar biwi ghar sambhal rahi hai, to uski mehnat bhi equally real hai. Dono agar thora thora share karein, ek doosre ka haath batayein tab balance banta hai.
Muhabbat mein “madad” hoti hai “mazdoori” nahi.
Respect hota hai exploitation nahi. Aur sab se zaroori comparison nahi hota.
Is liye kisi bhi relationship ko TikTok ke filter se mat dekho. Har chamakti hui cheez gold nahi hoti aur har “perfect husband” wali video ke peeche ek unsaid reality bhi hoti hai jo camera pe nahi aati.