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24/12/2021

Sage's joke

A wise man once walked in the park. It was a beautiful sunny day and the man was in a great mood.

While walking, he met a group of people. He heard that they were communicating, but noticed that they were not just talking, but were complaining to each other about the same problems over and over again.

He decided to approach them. Instead of joining the conversation and listening to the complaints, he told them a joke and everyone laughed.

Then the man repeated the same joke. Several people smiled.

Finally, the sage repeated the joke a third time, but no one responded to it.

The man smiled and said, “Surely you won't laugh at the same joke more than once. But what do you get by continuing to complain about the same problem over and over again? "

This is just a story that happened once. But its moral is that if you constantly complain, but do nothing to solve your problem, then you are shaking the air senselessly.

Moreover, people who listen to your whining will at some point stop reacting to it and even try to distance themselves from you.

Therefore, it is better not to waste your and other people's time on complaints, but take measures to make changes in an exciting situation, or ask for help.

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21/12/2021

Why don't you need to change yourself?
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Because trying to change yourself means one thing - you do not accept yourself.
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The paradox is that we begin to change, naturally and organically, as soon as we accept ourselves fully: with our anxiety, aggressiveness, anger, tendency to envy and procrastination. As soon as we stop criticizing ourselves, we cease to defend ourselves against ourselves and thereby drive our "shadow" sides even deeper.
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Include your inner parent who fully embraces your inner child. Only from this point can you begin to understand - and not with yourself, but with your reactions and emotions. With their origins and ways of correcting them, for the benefit of you and those around you.

It is only love that changes, deeply and fundamentally.

Do you agree?

20/12/2021

The parable of the three filters

The disciple approached the sage and asked him to step aside with him - there is important information. The sage went out with him and prepared to listen.

- Do you know, teacher, what your friend said about you?

- Wait, - the sage stopped him, - first pass what you want to say through three filters.

- Like this?

- The first filter is Truth. Are you sure you heard the truth?

- No, I just heard what I heard.

- The second filter is Good. Are you going to say something kind?

- No, quite the opposite.

- That is, you want to say something bad, but you’re not sure if it’s true. And the third filter is Benefit. What are you going to say, I really need to hear, what do you think?

“Probably not,” the student replied after thinking for a minute.

- Let's summarize. There is no truth, no kindness, no benefit in what you are planning to tell me. Is it worth saying?

17/12/2021

5 ways to become more decisive in what you do

We are all capable of more, but not everyone is willing to take risks. Take 5 life hacks to help:

1. Good = enough

Since childhood, we have been hammered into our heads with the requirement to do everything ideally: "a four is a bad grade." But in fact, striving for perfection, we are wasting time. Therefore, when you find yourself refining your project, say “stop” to yourself and move on.

2. Plan for the long term

The more transparent you see your big goal, the easier it will be for you to make decisions on the way to it. You realize that every step you take will become the next step. Or a lesson, without which there is no road to success either.

3. Take your time

Don't confuse procrastination with mature thinking about your next move. If you catch yourself that you are not ready to act right now, do not let yourself be rushed. Listen to your intuition.

4. Delegate

Calculate how much an hour of your work costs and how much it costs an hour that you will spend on those minor things that a student from a freelance exchange can do. Or a cleaning company, if we are talking about household troubles.

5. Rate the best and worst case and close the topic

Ask yourself: "What is the most desirable result for me?" and "What will be the result if things don't go according to plan?" Then accept both options and don't look back. Confidence in the chosen route, no matter what happens, is an important point. This will help you not to get lost in any case.

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