05/13/2026
When we were little, Mama would organize art classes in the summer for the kids in our neighborhood. I remember her saving egg shells. We would make artworks in the forms of mango, apple, house, simple shapes that she would draw on black illustration boards and we would fill them with egg shells.
She turned an old crib into a stage where I first held my hosting duties and my two younger brothers were my “guests.”
When I got a little older, she took us and our friends to vacations. We went to a resort in Batangas with my friend, Cris and to Baguio with another friend, Nancy.
She may have missed some occasions as she had limited time trying to provide for three kids when my father passed, but she did the best she could. She was at my high school and college graduations. She came and watched the counting of votes with me when I ran for student council. She even attended my college friend, Marvin’s stage play with me.
When I was in college, she refused to put me in a dorm. She got a place instead where my friends would come and hang out. She also made sure that there was always food when my friends would come over so that we wouldn’t have to hang out somewhere else.
There were too many of them who came to our house to mention but I’m sure they know who they are and have fond memories too.
When one of my friends got pregnant, she helped tell her mom.
Today, she continues to mother her nephews, nieces, grandkids, strangers she meets. She cheers for them, dotes on them, feels proud of them. I know because she tells me.
Just like most if not all mothers, she may be wanting to do more, but one of the greatest gifts she has given me is that she never made me feel wanting.
Thanks, Mama, for creating all these experiences for and with me and my brothers. I love you very much.
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