10/13/2026
Here are two stories of hardworking parents I met while traveling in the Philippines.
The Hardworking Dad:
He was our driver. He’s a really good driver: punctual, courteous on the road, knew his way around. He was also a great conversationalist. He was well-versed in politics, world events, history, and even entertainment.
He has three children, one of them has special needs. He and his wife only make enough money for basic necessities and they could not afford to pay for their son’s therapy.
I told him he should try getting into the financial services business. I said that it’s a very lucrative industry with minimal investment. His response was, “I don’t think I can do it.” I tried to convince him and he said I was really good in sales talk. I said just check out companies who offer these opportunities, gave him a good tip, and left it at that.
The Hardworking Mom:
She was my masseuse. Her husband is an electrician. Between whispers, she told me that she also has three kids. One of them is an engineer. The other is about to graduate college — a scholar at the state university. The youngest is in high school.
I asked how were they able to afford raising three kids with their income. She said she would do everything for her children’s future. She worked in Singapore as a nanny but only lasted six months because her employer abused her. She studied massage therapy and went to beauty school to also study hair cutting and pedicure/manicure. She said if there’s anything else she could get into to make more money to provide for her family, she would do it.
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Two hardworking parents but with two different mindsets. One has given up. The other keeps fighting — and winning.
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May we find that fire to fight — and when we do, we will also find ways to win. I know of one way. Give yourself a chance and message me.
