08/01/2024
Ever make a plan and it’s work to get there, then it’s a total disappointment!?!? Ahhhh so frustrating!
I see this happen with a lot of new parents.
That’s what happened to me and my kids today. We decided to walk/bike to the park today. It was a struggle to get out the door and stay together. Plus I’m still trying to get over a migraine and my patience is low. Well, we got to the park and everyone was happy till we found a wasps nest!! My kids are terrified, afternoon got swamped a few summers ago.
Well what to do? Give up and go home? Nope! I told the kids another mom told me there was a park further up the path, did they want to try?
Yes they did! Into the unknown! ( cue the Elsa music) My son said, well we are on an adventure so let’s go look!
We found the playground…as you can see in the picture it’s clearly meant for toddlers up to 5. My kids are older and love a challenge, like the 12y park.
Time to give up and go home or whine? Nope let’s give it a try! Ok well there was some whining. But 10 min in they had figured it out and were having fun. Not the way the playground was intended but we made the best of it!
Being a new parent is often like this. You have an idea of what life will be like when your baby comes home. You have a vision of what your maternity leave will be like. You dream of nursing your baby and that time together.
Then life throws you an adventure undead of sticking to your plan. You
It’s don’t have control of yourself, the situation, your partner, or your baby.
Do you give up on your dreams and hopes for your new life with your baby?
No!!!!
But you will have to take stock, make a new plan, and be willing to try something new.
What my kids really needed today wasn’t someone to tell them what to do. They needed someone who was going to help them reset, have a new vision, lead them there, and then give them encouragement when it was hard.
That’s what you need too. When things don’t go to plan (or better yet before baby comes) you need someone you trust to not tell you what to do, but instead give you guidance, support, ideas to move forward, and lots of encouragement when things are hard.
If you have that person, it doesn’t change that things are hard, but it makes it possible to still achieve your hopes and keep finding new adventures to celebrate.
Sound like the support you want as you plan for your baby?
Or maybe you’re in crisis now and need help.
I am here to support you and help you achieve your dreams of postpartum
motherhood and breastfeeding/pumping. Send me a DM. Let’s see if we make a great adventuring team!
I am here to help you find the next play ground or find the joy in the one you have ❤️