08/14/2026
Moms, rush week can be emotional for YOU too!! 💕 Here are 7 things to avoid during recruitment:
1️⃣ Assuming a legacy connection guarantees her anything. Legacy policies have changed SO much, and even if you had an amazing experience in your chapter, her recruitment is completely separate from yours.
2️⃣ Comparing her invitation list to another girl’s. Don’t let someone else’s invitations change how she feels about her own!
3️⃣ Assuming a cut means she did something wrong. It doesn’t!! Chapters make a LOT of cuts throughout recruitment, especially at competitive schools.
4️⃣ Texting her for updates after every single party. Let her actually experience recruitment! She’ll tell you everything when she has a chance.
5️⃣ Giving advice based on how rush worked when you went through it. You can absolutely share your experience, but what mattered when you rushed may not be relevant now.
6️⃣ Sharing her recruitment details with other people, ESPECIALLY with moms of girls currently IN the sororities. Her opinions about chapters are hers to share. What you choose to share CAN impact whether she’s invited back or not.
7️⃣ Trying to fix every disappointment. This might be the hardest one. First, just listen, and then help her focus on what she still has in front of her.
One of the BEST things you can do during rush is ask questions instead of giving opinions. How did you feel there? Are you excited to go back? Could you see yourself finding good friends there?
At the end of the day, it’s completely normal to feel HEAVILY invested in recruitment right alongside her! 💕 You’re going to experience the highs and disappointments too. Just remember to give her space to form her own opinions, and be the person she can talk to about everything along the way.
Good luck to all the rush mamas this week! You’re support matters more than you know💕
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