05/09/2024
How Generous Are you?
About 20 years ago there was a reality show on the "Directv" network that followed the lives of a few Wall Street stockbrokers. It was fascinating to me because I went through college desiring that type of career and life.
In one episode there is a group of brokers eating at a fancy steakhouse in Manhattan and one of them says that he dreams of having so much money that he could just randomly pay for the waitress to go to college. They called it "F-U Money".
While there was a part of this person’s thinking that was good in terms of generosity, there was another part that was completely off base.
Being generous has nothing to do with how much money you give.
Yet, I hear from so many people that they will be more generous when they have more money.
"When I get the kids' school paid off, then I'll _______".
"When we pay off these credit cards, then I will _______."
"When the business hits our profit goals, then I will_______."
"If I get that bonus, then I will __________."
Once I get mine, then I’ll be generous….
Sound familiar?
I used to be this way.
Do you consider yourself a generous person?
I'll have you consider that the person who gives a large sum every once in a while is not as generous as the person who gives a smaller amount often and with intention.
If you truly have a heart for generosity, start small and do it frequently. Learn how to integrate giving into your identity - make it a part of who you are.
If you can make it who you are, you can make it who your family is, and you can make it who your business is…and you can impact countless others.
If you have a heart for generosity but feel like you’re missing the mark, let’s have a conversation about it.