19/05/2026
- I once again joined Stupid People With Pets for a wide-ranging, blunt, funny, and sometimes chaotic conversation from the farm, with animals interrupting in the background and setting the tone for the whole loose, unscripted episode.
We started with ma*****na legalization and regulation. I talked about how cannabis can be useful for some people, but how it is also being marketed and medicalized in a sloppy “Wild West” kind of way. My concern is not that ma*****na should be illegal. My concern is that we still lack clear standards for dose, potency, impairment, and safety. If we can measure alcohol, sugar, fat, serving size, and liquor proof, we should be able to measure ma*****na more clearly too.
The host pushed back in defense of functional cannabis users, and we talked about the difference between alcohol culture and ma*****na culture, public safety, gummies, Delta products, and whether anyone really wants a pilot, bus driver, or truck driver operating while stoned.
I also talked about use versus abuse, and how the line gets crossed when a substance or behavior starts damaging your relationships, work, recreation, responsibilities, or health.
The second half of the episode shifted into sexuality, gay identity, generational attitudes, and language. I talked about being gay in the 1980s, the AIDS crisis, and how difficult it was even to get basic safe-sex education supported on a college campus.
We also got into whether society is actually more accepting now, or just louder, more divided, and more reactive. That led into identity politics, trans identity, gay culture, and the difference between genuine identity and performative self-labeling.
Near the end, we talked about offensive language, especially slurs. I explained why context, relationship, power, history, and intent matter. A word used inside a group can feel very different from the same word used by someone outside that group with contempt or hostility.
The episode closes with Groot making an appearance, some talk about SUP With Your Pup and The Tao of Dogs, and the host saying this was one of his favorite conversations in a long time.