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09/30/2026

Needing help does not mean you failed your family.

That might be the most important idea in my conversation with Lindsay Friedman, founder of LTCareNav and host of The Care Compass.

Because caregiving is one of those spaces where the noble story can quietly become dangerous.

“If you really love someone, you should be able to care for them yourself.”

That sounds beautiful. Until someone is exhausted, unsafe, resentful, financially overwhelmed, medically confused, and Googling long-term care options at midnight while pretending they’re fine.

In this episode of Is Anything Real?, Lindsay and I talk about long-term care, family guilt, care partners, provider trust, outside help, and why love needs infrastructure.

Not because love is weak. Because love is too important to be left unsupported.

We also get into why families often meet long-term care in crisis, why care partner wellbeing has to be part of the care plan, and why random listings or pay-to-play provider directories are not enough when families are scared, tired, and trying to make high-stakes decisions quickly.

This one is deeply human.

And if it hits, send it to someone who is quietly carrying too much and calling it love.

Episode 81 with Lindsay Friedman is live now.

Lindsay Friedman: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lfriedman1/
LTCareNav: https://ltcarenav.com/

Fifteen years ago, someone at a party in Chicago told me I should start a podcast.I laughed.Apparently the idea stayed w...
09/30/2026

Fifteen years ago, someone at a party in Chicago told me I should start a podcast.
I laughed.

Apparently the idea stayed with me.

In spring 2025, I finally launched Is Anything Real? and it has completely changed the trajectory of my work.

Not because I became “a podcaster.” Because it gave me a reason to be curious in public, build relationships, follow ideas further, and hear myself think.

Sometimes the ideas we laugh off aren’t bad ideas.

We’re just not ready for them yet.

Happy International Podcast Day. 🎙️

I need your help with something.If something helps you see a pattern in your life, leadership, energy, or decisions...wh...
09/28/2026

I need your help with something.

If something helps you see a pattern in your life, leadership, energy, or decisions...what actually helps you change it?

Not just understand it. Not save it for later. Actually do something differently.

That question has been following me around since a concert in Brooklyn last week.
And it ended up changing how I’m thinking about Plugged In Leadership and what might come next.

This week’s issue connects the dots between energy, agency, Transition Leadership, the operating systems we build around our lives...and a chalkboard at a concert. 😂
But more than anything, I want your answer to the question.

What helps you move from: “I see it.” → “I’m changing it.”

Tell me below, DM me, or reply to the newsletter. Messy answers encouraged.

09/23/2026

Everyone's talking about the intelligent future.

Faster models. Smarter systems. Better automation. More synthetic output.

But my guest Mike Brown asks a better question:
Who's building the human one?

In Episode 80 of Is Anything Real?, I sit down with Mike Brown, founder of Sightworks, for a conversation about AI, design, leadership, belonging, creative work, and what it means to build teams, places, companies, and communities where people feel more alive.

Mike has spent roughly 25 years across creative production, design, storytelling, set design, fashion, retail, and the built environment. So this conversation doesn't come from a “hot take on AI” place.

It comes from someone who has spent decades designing the conditions where people gather, feel, move, believe, belong, and remember.

We talk about:
- why the intelligent future is an incomplete prophecy
- why technology can accelerate work but cannot replace trust
- why synthetic polish is getting cheap
- why perfection is not the advantage anymore
- why aliveness matters
- how leaders can design conditions for belonging
- why faster is not the same as better
- why smarter is not the same as wiser
- how to run the Human Future Design Audit

This one is not anti-technology. It is anti-lazy futurism.

Use the tools. But do not let the tools become a substitute for human judgment, trust, connection, belonging, repair, or aliveness.

Episode 80 with Mike Brown is live now.

Mike Brown: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikebrownsightworks/
Sightworks: https://sightworks.co/

A choice is a rep.Maybe self-trust isn't something we have to find before we move.Maybe we build it by moving.Choose. Ac...
09/22/2026

A choice is a rep.

Maybe self-trust isn't something we have to find before we move.
Maybe we build it by moving.

Choose. Act. Learn. Choose again.

Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't.

Either way, you get another piece of evidence that you can navigate what comes next.

Building this keynote keeps surprising the hell out of me. 😂

Your phone has the decency to turn red at 20%. Humans really could have used that feature. 😂Because ambitious people can...
09/21/2026

Your phone has the decency to turn red at 20%. Humans really could have used that feature. 😂

Because ambitious people can be surprisingly good at being depleted. You can still lead the meeting. Hit the deadline. Make the decision. Pick up the kids. Solve the problem.

And because you can still perform, you assume you've recovered. But those aren't the same thing.

I've been thinking about recovery through two different kinds of capacity:

Capacity to Perform: Can I handle what I already know is coming?

Capacity to Absorb: What happens when life changes the plan?

The unexpected call. The sick kid. The resignation. The canceled flight. The conversation that suddenly needs 45 minutes.

Sometimes “one more thing” feels like ten, not because the thing is enormous, but because there wasn't much capacity left to absorb it.

So here's a question I've started asking: If something important changed at 11:30 this morning, what would have to give?

Sleep? Exercise? Attention? Patience? Your relationships? Tomorrow?

That's a very different recovery diagnostic than: Can I go again?

Because ambitious people are usually pretty damn good at going again.

This week's Plugged In Leadership goes deeper into Energy Debt, recovery, and the difference between Capacity to Perform and Capacity to Absorb.

Recovery isn't only about creating capacity for the next challenge you choose. It creates capacity for the challenge you don't.

Maybe unused capacity isn't inefficiency. Maybe that's what resilience looks like before you need it.

🔌 Recovery: The Capacity You Don't Know You'll Need

Want the full issue? Comment RECOVERY or DM me RECOVERY, and I'll send it your way.

Apparently this keynote-building rabbit hole is going to keep coming for me. 😂 This one landed hard:I can make a wrong ...
09/19/2026

Apparently this keynote-building rabbit hole is going to keep coming for me. 😂

This one landed hard:
I can make a wrong decision without becoming wrong about myself.

Because somewhere along the way, I think a lot of us learned that we're supposed to believe in ourselves first. Get confident. Get ready. Know what we're doing. Then move.

I'm starting to think we have some of that backwards.

Sometimes we build trust in ourselves by moving.

Make the choice.
Take the action.
Learn what happens.
Get some s**t wrong.
Choose again.

Every time we do, we collect a little more evidence that we can navigate whatever comes next.

Self-trust is a muscle.

Still figuring out where this keynote ultimately lands, but hot damn… I think I'm finding something in here. ❤️

I think I finally found better words for the people I most want to be in a room with.Not a job title. Not an age. Not a ...
09/18/2026

I think I finally found better words for the people I most want to be in a room with.

Not a job title. Not an age. Not a company size.

Capable people who are moving, but aren't sure why it doesn't feel like it.

Because sometimes what looks like a time problem, focus problem, or confidence problem is something deeper:

You're working your a** off, but you're not seeing the progress you expected.

And eventually that can start changing the story you tell yourself about yourself.

I've been pulling on that thread a LOT lately: identity debt, action debt, fear, readiness, energy...and I'm starting to see how much of it belongs to the same bigger idea.

Still building this keynote. But this one made me stop.

Thanks Antonio Neves + Build Your Keynote for continuing to push me underneath the first answer.

09/16/2026

His boss called after he almost died. Not to check in. To ask when he’d be back at work.

That moment changed how John de Jong understood leadership, performance, and business. Because when someone treats you like a cog instead of a person, you do not forget it.

In Episode 79 of Is Anything Real?, John and I talk about the full arc of that lesson — from a leadership failure that changed his life to building a practical business rooted in trust, visibility, reputation, and doing business like a human.

This is not just a conversation about Google reviews. It is not just a conversation about local marketing. It is a conversation about what happens when business remembers that people are real.

Your employees are real. Your customers are real. Your reputation is real. And growth follows trust, not tricks.

Episode 79 with John de Jong is live now.

John de Jong: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-de-jong-alleykat/
AlleyKat Signs: https://www.alleykatsigns.com/
iGetYOUfound: https://igetyoufound.com/

I’ve never been very good at patting myself on the back.Maybe part of that goes all the way back to being Adam W. Barney...
09/15/2026

I’ve never been very good at patting myself on the back.

Maybe part of that goes all the way back to being Adam W. Barney. Alphabetical order usually meant I was first.

First locker. Front row. Near the top of every class list. First name called.

So there was always a tiny part of me wondering: Did I actually earn this…or is the alphabet just carrying me again?

That’s why this one made me smile.

I’m genuinely honored to be included by Digital Reference among this group of executive coaches and consultants. It’s also one of a handful of things that have come my way lately, and I’m trying to get a little better at not immediately brushing those moments aside.

Not because recognition is the goal.

But sometimes it’s useful evidence that the work you’ve been quietly building is landing.

Apparently, the alphabet has finally stopped doing all the heavy lifting.

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