08/02/2026
It started 2 years ago.
The mirrors showing up.
Foreshadowing.
So very Ghost of Christmas Future.
How’d I start to see them?
I felt them first.
A hit on the inside that said:
PAY THE F**K ATTENTION TO THIS.
I was hyper aware of each thing I was witnessing:
- The friend in complete meltdown after major life events and no self care, took them down.
- The friend crumbling and grieving the loss of a love that didn’t want them, for YEARS.
- The massively chaotic friend who had no time for real friendship.
- The friend who didn’t use their voice and tolerated unacceptable behavior for years.
- The friend who chased a love and felt empty without it.
- The friend who validated someone else and I trusted, despite what my intuition said.
- The friend who couldn’t keep their money in order, no matter how hard they tried.
- The friend who doubted themselves and stayed stuck and spinning in indecision.
- The friend who filled the hole in their soul with something else and it still wasn’t right for them.
ALL of these friends, my mirrors, in the last 2 years… have shown me more of myself than I’ve ever known in my whole life.
Self awareness can be a freight train to the face sometimes… it’s not easy to see someone else’s struggle and be SO TRIGGERED by it… and then take it all inside to process and see what I’m supposed to see inside myself.
Ever wanna bang your head against a wall cuz your friend just ISN’T GETTING IT?!
Like, why dont they just leave?
Change their situation?
Well guess what - there’s a gift in their life lesson for you.😉
“They” say… the one story I’m most afraid to tell?🫣
It’s the one that people need to hear.
On the 17th I have a chapter being published inside Katie Oman’s 3rd vol. of RISE: An Anthology of Women’s Stories and it’s the really fu**in hard story I never wanted to tell… but it’s time.🔥
2/17 is a MASSIVE DAY for me y’all.
It’s no wonder I so feel funny inside.
It’s all about to come out.
NEW GOAL: THREE #1 Best Sellers in 6 months😱🔥🙌
Will you support me?🥰🙌
I love y’all bunches!
