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08/28/2026

How do you change self-concept and stop self sabotaging? Find out when you listen to this episode of the podcast with the link in bio or from your favorite podcast provider.

There’s a big difference between communicating what you need and constantly having to convince someone to give it to you...
08/28/2026

There’s a big difference between communicating what you need and constantly having to convince someone to give it to you.
A healthy relationship should have room for reassurance, affection, communication, and vulnerability without making you feel needy for wanting them. You’re allowed to want a relationship where care feels mutual and you know where you stand.

08/27/2026

Are women programmed to be chosen? Find out the answer to this question and more when you listen to this episode of the podcast with the link in bio or from your favorite podcast provider.

The goal isn’t to arrive at love with a perfectly clean slate. We all bring experiences, lessons, fears, and a little ba...
08/27/2026

The goal isn’t to arrive at love with a perfectly clean slate. We all bring experiences, lessons, fears, and a little baggage with us.
What matters is having enough self-awareness to understand your patterns—and choosing someone who is willing to understand theirs, too. The healthiest partnerships give both people room to keep growing while offering each other empathy, patience, and support along the way.

08/26/2026

Is it Love or Old wounds? Find out how to tell the difference when you listen to this episode of the podcast from your favorite podcast provider or with the link in our bio.

Dating after disappointment can make it really easy to assume the future will simply repeat the past. But what happened ...
08/26/2026

Dating after disappointment can make it really easy to assume the future will simply repeat the past. But what happened before doesn’t get to write the ending of your next chapter.
This week, Bela sat down with Sabrina Bendory on the Smart Dating Academy podcast for a conversation about shifting that perspective and approaching love from a different place.
🎧 Listen to the full episode witht he link in bio or wherever you get your podcasts.

08/25/2026

What is the real cause of rejection pain? Find out when you listen to the entire episode of the podcast with the link in our bio or from your favorite podcast provider.

Chemistry might create the spark, but there are so many things that make someone more attractive the longer you know the...
08/25/2026

Chemistry might create the spark, but there are so many things that make someone more attractive the longer you know them.
It’s the person who follows through. Who asks questions because they genuinely want to know you. Who communicates instead of leaving you guessing. Who makes their interest clear and brings the same energy to the relationship that you do.
THAT is the good stuff. ❤️
Ready to get better at spotting the qualities that actually matter? Join Bela’s FREE Masterclass—link in bio.

08/24/2026

Have you ever met someone who gave you butterflies, only to realize later that the relationship was built on anxiety instead of compatibility?
In this powerful conversation, I sit down with relationship coach and bestselling author Sabrina Bendory to unpack one of the biggest dating myths keeping smart, successful people single: confusing chemistry with compatibility.
Together, we explore why so many high-achieving women and men are drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, how childhood conditioning shapes our dating choices, and why “the spark” isn’t always the sign you’ve found your person.
Sabrina shares insights from her book The Feminine Code, but this conversation is for everyone. Whether you’re dating after divorce, returning to dating after heartbreak, or simply ready to build healthier relationships, you’ll learn how to stop abandoning yourself in the pursuit of love and start dating from confidence, clarity, and emotional security.
If you’ve ever wondered why healthy love can feel unfamiliar, or why chaotic relationships seem so magnetic, this episode will help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface and how to change your patterns for good.

Tomorrow night!If you’ve been waiting for a sign to do dating differently, THIS. IS. IT!Join Bela LIVE tomorrow at 7 PM ...
08/24/2026

Tomorrow night!
If you’ve been waiting for a sign to do dating differently, THIS. IS. IT!
Join Bela LIVE tomorrow at 7 PM CT for a FREE masterclass all about finding lasting love without wasting more precious time on the wrong people, the wrong patterns, or the wrong approach.
One hour could completely change the way you date—and what you accept along the way.
❤️ Save your FREE spot now. Link in bio!

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