08/14/2026
๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐
๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ค๐ข๐๐ฌโฆ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ณ๐๐ ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฆ.
And maybe I should have understood the value of time more than anyone.
Because Iโm a mom who already knows what it feels like to wish for ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ฒ with her child.
I lost my son, Nathan, to a congenital illness.
And when youโve experienced a loss like that, you learn something you can never unlearn:
๐๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐๐.
Yet somewhere along the way, I found myself working more and more.
I love being a nurse.
I love caring for people.
And Iโll always be proud of what I do.
But between the night shifts, extra shifts, sleeping during the day, and trying to recover before doing it all over againโฆ
I started hearing:
โ๐๐จ๐ฆ, ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ง?โ
And those words hit differently.
Because I remember wishing I could have had more time with Nathan.
One more ordinary morning.
One more meal together.
One more hug.
One more chance to watch him grow.
And here I wasโwith my children right in front of meโsometimes too exhausted or too busy working to fully enjoy those ordinary moments.
That realization broke something open in me.
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ?
For years, I believed being a good provider meant working more.
More shifts = more income.
More income = a better life for my family.
But I started realizing that providing for my family isnโt only about what I can give them financially.
๐๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐๐ง๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ๐จ.
So no, I didnโt suddenly quit nursing.
Instead, I started building a ๐๐ฅ๐๐ง ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ง๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐๐ซ.
Not because I hate bedside nursing.
But because I want nursing to eventually become something ๐ ๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ, without feeling like every financial need automatically means another shift away from my family.
I want to have the flexibility to say:
โI can be there.โ
"I donโt need to pick up that extra shift.โ
"I have another way to contribute to our family.โ
Nathan taught me something his short life will never let me forget:
๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ง.
๐๐ง๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐ฅ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐.
๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐๐ง ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ข๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ญ๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐ง๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐.
So Iโm still a nurse.
Iโm still a mom.
But now Iโm intentionally building more choices for our future.
And if youโre a tired nurse or working mom reading this, maybe you donโt need to quit your career.
Maybe you simply need to start asking:
โ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ง ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ก๐จ๐ข๐๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ?โ
Start small.
Learn something new.
Use the pockets of time you already have.
And donโt wait until burnout makes the decision for you.
Because one day, our kids wonโt be asking,
โ๐๐จ๐ฆ, ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ง?โ
Theyโll be grown.
And I donโt want to look back wishing I had created another choice sooner.
๐ฌ If youโre a nurse or working mom curious about the ๐๐ฅ๐๐ง ๐ ๐โ๐ฆ ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ ๐ง๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ , comment โ๐๐๐๐ ๐โ and Iโll share the information with you.
๐๐๐ซ๐โ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐! ๐ซ
๐ผ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ก๐ ๐ฃ๐๐๐ฆ. ๐ต๐ข๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ข๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐๐๐ก, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐ฆ. ๐ผ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ก ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐๐ก๐๐๐.