Authentic Dater

10/13/2024

Online apps are just tools and they do work sometimes.

The real challenge is to get people to do the work only they can do on themselves so they are ready for a relationship.

Meeting the right person when you're not ready is a terrible thing, because you end up wasting the opportunity.

Learning to optimize self after the loss is harder and maybe the next great opportunity is years away...

Using these tools can be a double-edged sword if you're not ready to be in an amazing partnership.

Learn trust, respect and communication skills first.

07/24/2024

I built an AI with some of my best advice and practical experience with clients... I asked it what love is... What do you think about the output?

Ultimately, love is a dynamic and evolving experience that enriches our lives, teaches us about ourselves, and connects us deeply with others. It’s a beautiful and essential part of the human experience, offering profound meaning and joy.

AI isn't human, but it gets it's input from us. It may never feel emotions, but it can put out some very good definitions.

07/02/2021

...and so the right person can find and connect with you. Fake vibes attract the wrong tribes.

12/02/2020

04/05/2020

Stay positive, trust yourself.
You've got this.

03/28/2020

Keep an upbeat and optimistic attitude right now.

Times of trouble create strong people.

Pray like it depends on your source, work like it depends on you, and take time to breathe, get sunlight, and take care of yourself.

02/07/2020

Beliefs are the software that's really running the show no matter what we try to show other people.
The good news is that you can affect and change them if you learn how.
We teach this in Dating Differently.