09/21/2026
In second grade, kids took my lunch bag, stepped on it, and threw it across the cafeteria.
So I stopped bringing sandwiches.
I told my mom I wanted mac and cheese. Soup. Anything in a hard thermos.
Because you can't crush a thermos.
I never told her why. I didn't tell anyone for 35 years.
I shared that story, and a few others I'd never said out loud, on Let's Write Your Speech with Israel.
The idea of the show is simple: John sits down with a speaker and helps shape the talk in real time. What I didn't expect was how much he'd help me shape the why.
Somewhere between the thermos, my Baba, and the all-campus formal I created in college so students who weren't Greek or athletes could have their night too, John put words to something I've been circling for years:
Whatever you sell, you're really in the business of mattering.
Every person you serve (your client, your team member, your kid) is silently asking one question: Do I matter?
Most businesses answer it with a logo on a mug.
The ones that last answer it on purpose, and consistently. With a name remembered. A handwritten note. A room someone wouldn't otherwise get to be in.
John, thank you. Years ago you looked at me and asked, "Why don't you do it?" You did it again in this conversation.
Who was the first person who made you feel like you mattered? Tell me in the comments.
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