HAHLAH Consulting Group LLC

08/25/2026

If you’re questioning your own resilience, please consider reading this article written by a colleague at Divorce Support Collective. As she says in the article:

“You are already someone who gets back up. Not someday. Now. The track record already exists, whether or not you've been keeping score.”

People sometimes assume resilience is something you're born with, like curly hair or brown eyes. You either got it or you didn't.

One of our DSC members, Fränya K. Isley, makes a case for a different way of looking at it. Resilience isn't a trait, it's a track record. It gets built one hard thing at a time, and it has nothing to do with holding it together gracefully. You can cry in your car, lose your patience, have a day where you can't get out of bed until noon, and still be one of the most resilient women you know. The getting back up is the part that counts.

Here's the part worth sitting with: if you're afraid you can't handle what's coming next, look at what you've already handled. That list is probably longer than you've given yourself credit for.

Read the full post on the blog: https://www.thedivorcesupportcollective.com/blog/bounce-back-queen-cultivating-inner-resilience

08/23/2026

Today is National Nerd Day.

Confession time...

At HAHLAH®, we're a little bit nerdy.

We're nerdy about organization.
Nerdy about checklists.
Nerdy about spreadsheets.
Nerdy about helping clients understand their options.
Nerdy about creating systems that reduce stress and overwhelm.

Maybe that doesn't sound exciting to everyone.

But when you're navigating divorce, the details matter.

Knowing where documents are.
Understanding your financial picture.
Preparing for important conversations.
Having a plan.

What feels overwhelming today often becomes much more manageable when information is organized and next steps are clear.

So today, let's celebrate the fact that being a little nerdy isn't a bad thing.

Sometimes the things that seem a little nerdy, like checklists, organization, and planning, are exactly what help turn chaos into clarity and uncertainty into confidence.

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08/15/2026

National Relaxation Day

If you're navigating divorce, relaxing may feel impossible right now.

There are decisions to make, questions to answer, and a future you're trying to piece together.

Today, give yourself permission to pause.

A quiet cup of coffee. A walk outside. A few deep breaths. A moment of peace.

You do not have to carry the weight of everything every moment of every day.

Sometimes creating space for yourself is not a distraction from the work.

It's part of the work.

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08/11/2026

National Son & Daughter Day
If you are navigating divorce, you may spend a lot of time worrying about your children.

Wondering if they are hurting. Wondering if you are doing enough. Wondering how this transition will affect their future.

Those worries come from love.

Today, on National Son & Daughter Day, take a breath.

Your children do not need a perfect parent. They do not need all the answers. They do not need you to carry the weight of every uncertainty alone.

What children often remember most is feeling loved, safe, seen, and valued.

A conversation. A hug. A walk together. A shared laugh. Showing up, even on the hard days.

If you are doing your best to love your children while navigating one of life's most difficult transitions, give yourself some grace.

The fact that you worry about them is often evidence of how deeply you care.

Today, celebrate the bond you share with your children.

That connection is stronger than you may realize.

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08/10/2026

Understanding Your Options Does Not Mean You Have to Decide Today

Right now, you may be wondering if divorce is the right choice.

Maybe you have been thinking about it for months. Maybe you have talked to friends, family, or a therapist. Maybe you wake up every day feeling torn between staying and leaving.

One of the most difficult parts of this stage is not knowing what your options actually are.

Many women assume they need to make a final decision before seeking support.

You do not.

Sometimes the first step is simply gathering information.

Understanding what a divorce process could look like. Learning about mediation and other options. Getting a clearer picture of finances. Knowing what questions to ask. Understanding what resources may be available.

Information creates clarity.

And clarity helps reduce fear.

At HAHLAH®, we help women organize information, understand options, and think through next steps so they can make informed decisions that align with their own goals, values, and circumstances.

You do not have to have all the answers today.

Sometimes the next right step is simply understanding your choices.

07/18/2026

🚀 The HAHLAH® website has a fresh new look!

The updated site highlights how HAHLAH® supports both individuals and businesses through consulting, mediation, mental fitness training, and strategic guidance.

At the heart of everything we do is a simple belief:

Clarity changes everything.

If you or your business needs help navigating a challenge, we'd love to support you.

🔗 https://hahlah.com

HAHLAH when you or your business needs help

Helping individuals & businesses find clarity, create order, and move forward with confidence - one challenge at a time.

07/14/2026

When you're going through a divorce, everything can feel like an emergency.

A text message. A disagreement over the kids. A decision you didn't agree with. When your life feels like it's being turned upside down, even small things can trigger panic.

The truth is, most divorce emergencies aren't legal emergencies.

True emergencies involve immediate safety concerns—situations where a child is in danger, someone is missing, or urgent action is needed to prevent serious harm. Everything else may be stressful, unfair, frustrating, or heartbreaking, but it can often wait until the next business day.

Before reaching for the phone, take a breath and ask yourself:

➡️ "Will someone be harmed if this is addressed tomorrow?"

That simple pause can help you move from reacting to responding.

Divorce is emotional. It's overwhelming. And in the middle of the chaos, having someone help you organize the facts, the documents, and the next steps can make all the difference.

HAHLAH® helps clients create order when life feels out of control—organizing records, timelines, and important information so they can feel more prepared and help their attorneys work more effectively.

You don't have to carry the weight of this process alone.

07/10/2026

🎉 Featured in Voyage Minnesota Magazine!

We are proud to share that HAHLAH Consulting Group LLC was recently featured in Voyage Minnesota Magazine's Hidden Gems series.

This feature provided an opportunity to reflect on our journey and the purpose behind our work.

We invite you to learn more about who we are, what drives us, and the impact we strive to make every day.

🔗 Read the article: https://voyageminnesota.com/interview/hidden-gems-meet-lori-hogen-of-hahlah-consulting-group-llc

Thank you to everyone who has supported our mission and trusted us to be part of your journey. We're excited about what lies ahead.

Today we’d like to introduce you to Lori Hogen. Hi Lori, it’s an honor to have you on the platform. Thanks for taking the time to share your story with us – to start maybe you can share some of your backstory with our readers?My career path has not been a straight line, but when […]

07/02/2026

We're beaming with pride to share that HAHLAH® is now officially a registered trademark under HAHLAH Consulting Group LLC! Huge gratitude to the exceptional team at Wagner, Falconer & Judd, Ltd. for their expert guidance and support in making this milestone a reality. 🎉

07/02/2026

So excited to be part of Divorce Support Collective! Be sure to check out the member blog posts and the Divorce Discussions Podcast for helpful information from the group.

We are so excited to welcome Lori Hogen to the Divorce Support Collective! 🎉

Lori is a Divorce Consultant and Mediator and the co-founder of HAHLAH Consulting Group LLC, bringing more than three decades of family law, court, mediation, and organizational experience to our community.

One of Lori's greatest gifts is her ability to bring order to chaos. She has a real talent for organizing information, explaining complicated processes, and helping people take the next right step. Whether she is guiding a client through mediation, building a clear financial snapshot, or simply helping someone feel less alone in the middle of a major transition, her goal is always the same: to help people feel more prepared, more informed, and more supported.

We especially love how Lori sees her work. As she puts it, one of the biggest lessons she has learned is not to let fear make decisions for her. That belief in helping people move from panic to strength is exactly the kind of heart we are proud to have in this Collective.

Welcome, Lori. We are so glad you are here!

Learn more about Lori here: https://www.thedivorcesupportcollective.com/lori-hogen