02/14/2019
What's important to you?
On this Valentine’s Day, take a moment to discover for yourself what is uniquely important to you through the eyes of someone else. Here are two quick and easy steps to find out something from a wife, husband, partner, friend (or anyone else you might be closely connected to!) that just might transform your relationship:
1. First, take a moment to let this person know you are interested in doing something a little different this Valentine’s Day – finding out what is important to them about being in a relationship with you! Ask them a simple question: “What’s important to you about our relationship?”
2. Take the answer they give you and ask this follow-up question: “What’s so important about that?” Keep “drilling up” with similar questions until you land on something special that has you feel deeply connected to your partner.
One pitfall to be mindful of is talking about what we don't want, rather than what is important. It’s far more effective to look at what you want, rather than what you don’t want. This makes it easier to get to what’s important.
This is a simple exercise to discover what is deeply important to both you and your partner about being together in a relationship. If you don’t have a significant other, this works great with a close family member or a dear friend.
Happy Valentine's Day!
I copied this from a company called Mission Control, I could not find a way to share it as this was sent in an email to me. Full credit and appreciation for www.missioncontrol.com